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But not in a way that makes people feel bad. It's "We settled the guest list before we met you, but want you to come now that we know you" vs "you didn't make the cut the first time, … (View Post)

Thanks! I didn't click through to figure it out, though I assumed latter...I was just thinking "WTF? I've learned some much from TK to now judge this shit." (View Post)

This. If they're already on the cruise, why wouldn't you want them at the ceremony. (Though that opens up a whole other can of worms, like will you pay for their cruise, etc.) (View Post)

If you're excited for her/them, why can't you get something for the friend without the party? I'm pretty sure he's also excitedly expecting a child. Make the card out to both of them. (View Post)

Thanks for the input. Hearing some validation makes it easier to just let it go. I'm pretty sure this was a compromise. I knew that she wanted to elope and he wanted a big family wedding, so although… (View Post)