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This depends on the community group, and it's size. For a large team of volunteers or a sports team, I'd feel this way. Not so much for a book club or knitting circle, which in my experience cap out… (View Post)

I would also spread by word of mouth that daughters are invited as possible. Personally, I rarely see showers with kids invited at all, so I'd probably not encode the envelope so we'll. Guests may ap… (View Post)

Sorry, that wasn't clear....I meant the people armchair diagnosing (or non-diagnosing but still bringing up diagnoses) for the LW. My main issue was that people are not Aspurgers or any diagnosis. T… (View Post)

Armchair diagnosing is problematic at best, and misinformative at worst. But can I just point out that people ARE NOT their diagnosis. I don't know if this was a typo or just a shortening of "ar… (View Post)

Not actually that bad...I've seen them at wedding showers. It's when the hosts set up an anonymous "well" (I've seen everything from a paper mache well to a laundry basket covered in prett… (View Post)