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I would likely NOT be attending your "engagement party" if I knew you were "eloping" because I find it rude to invite someone to a pre wedding party but not the actual wedding. A… (View Post)

Exactly - it will seem weird. Perhaps "better dressed" is not the appropriate words....I expect the guests to be dressed at the same level formality (or less) than the bride and groom. My … (View Post)

That is a problem! Just kidding. Even though shot glasses are used in our house, I do not want to use one with someone else's wedding details (all our barware matches!) I'd much rather have an edibl… (View Post)

Well, duh! If pretty much everyone is telling you it's a shitty idea, it probably is! I hope the light comes on for you and you realize that making guests comfortable so they have the best possible … (View Post)

Ditto. She asked if this really was a thing and when everyone says it's rude, she just keeps yapping for it - obviously not wanting opinions. Troll. (View Post)