In your OP you said: "my FSIL had a baby 14 months ago and since then her and her bf of 16 months (do the math) have not been the same. " that is full of judgment. (View Post)
It sounds like you are judging every aspect of her life. From her post baby body, to her sex life, to her lack of job, lack of money, depression, etc. Maybe she doesn't want to go to wedding appoint… (View Post)