I'm surprised Crane treats divorcees and widows the same. Miss Manners indicates that widows usually keep the "Mrs. HisFirst HisLast" form. (View Post)
Hand delivering is not against etiquette; it's the most traditional way to deliver a message. Oh, wait, you mean you personally will be delivering it, not your footman? Oh. Well, I believe it's still… (View Post)
AFAIK, "Lisa" is her full first name (her middle name being "Marie" lends credence to this). I've actually never seen "Lisa" as a nickname for "Elizabeth" bef… (View Post)