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You are having a 40-person wedding, so let's do some math. Assuming all couples, that's 20 people. Assuming you've already cleared the dates with your parents, that's 18 people. Instead of sending 1… (View Post)

I agree with this. Calling it a "private cocktail hour" sounds terribly rude. However, having food and drinks available to the families and bridal party taking pics with you during the coc… (View Post)

Just because it's not a reception doesn't mean it can't be fancy. If your FMIL wants to throw a black-tie affair with 500 guests in your honor that is just as appropriate as a casual brunch at someo… (View Post)

I think you should stick to the way your caterer wants to do it, and is used to doing it. If they are experienced, they know what they're doing. We at about 170 people at our wedding, and the meal ch… (View Post)

This is not a reception, because it's not tied to the event and with the same attendees as the event. Please don't call it a reception, and don't let your FMIL call it a reception. Call it a party. A… (View Post)