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If you don't know someone's name you should absolutely ask. That's different than asking what formal title they prefer. The rules/titles are there specifically to make things uniform. And no one sho… (View Post)

Agree--ceremony (30-min to an hour), cocktail hour, and 4 hours for dinner and dancing seems pretty standard to me. That's essentially a 6 hour event. That's plenty for most people. I've also been t… (View Post)

I totally agree that the outfits/shirts should be provided by the bride and given as an option, not required. But where you say "the role of bridesmaid often comes with an assigned dress" a… (View Post)

Definitely not being adversarial for the sake of it! But I definitely do enjoy pointing out the hypocrisy of a lot of wedding "traditions" and trends that many people seem to close their e… (View Post)

I think this fits in with allowing some guests to bring their kids and not others. It's best to do in circles. For instance, if your best friend from college is traveling for the wedding and doesn't… (View Post)