It does sound condescending to me too. I read it and thought "I must be living under a rock for never having heard this term before". And then I thought, "This poor guy learned somethi… (View Post)
@pinkshorts27 I know why people are bothered by cash bars. It makes sense to me. That's why etiquette exists and why people should be considerate of it, regardless of their personal feelings on … (View Post)
Tiered weddings. Not inviting my husband. Lying about a PPD. Paying for soft drinks at a reception Being asked to supply anything for the reception. Being asked to clean up at a reception. Jack and … (View Post)
I think $45 is a nice gift. I think seeds and plants are a nice gift. One of my cousins sent us a card with $20 and said she doesn't have much money, but wanted to buy the newlyweds a drink on o… (View Post)
Cash bars only offend me if I have to pay for soft drinks. I'm used to them. If you charge me for a diet coke, I will judge you for life. This doesn't mean I think they aren't rude, th… (View Post)