No one would judge you for privately donating to your friend's adoption. People simply find the act of relating this donation to your wedding as the favor/gift to guests as inappropriate. edited… (View Post)
Depends on my relationship with the person and how much I'm otherwise spending on their wedding. I normally spend around $100 on a shower gift and $100 as a wedding gift I guess. If it's a … (View Post)
It is acceptable for anyone who's getting married to be honored with a shower if someone throws it, regardless of which time around this is. The person who is in charge of throwing a shower, is … (View Post)