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Hon - I know there is no way we can understand the intricacies of your relationship from just a few posts, but what comes through in your writing is: 1. Your husband is an emotionally abusive, selfi… (View Post)

I've loved most of it (guest list/invite stuff aside) - but I think my favorite thing has definitely been co-writing our ceremony with FI and our officiant. But what I'm *really* going to m… (View Post)

Mimiphin - I hope if you decided to take yours off, your FI wouldn't have the same controlling/borderline emotionally abusive reaction that your great grandfather did. To take them and let her … (View Post)

Alright - deep breath. It sounds like you have a ton on your plate right now. A wedding guest with this attitude would be irritating even under normal circumstances, and I understand that with all y… (View Post)

Errr - I wouldn't worry about it too much. I think most adults understand that the world doesn't revolve around birthdays, and you've done nothing wrong. It's sweet of you to be c… (View Post)