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Errr - I wouldn't worry about it too much. I think most adults understand that the world doesn't revolve around birthdays, and you've done nothing wrong. It's sweet of you to be concerned, and maybe … (View Post)

Gorgeous dress! Add me to the ivory sash camp - I think the dark sash visually cuts you in two.  (View Post)

Your wedding is two years out and you already have your invites printed? And you're worried about guests getting into the Halloween theme, but you put bats and pumpkins on the one piece of correspon… (View Post)

Babyblazer - I've been to weddings where the bride and groom have done all sorts of things - excluded my fiancé on the invite, asked me to pay cash for my drinks at the reception, asked split me up … (View Post)

Thanks again for all the opinions/feedback, everyone! I didn't bring up culture to excuse behavior at all - but to explain the dynamic. As @allispain pointed out, there are places where people do col… (View Post)