To me, when you're engaged, it means you've already figured out the family holidays and ironed out a lot of crap. When you're planning a wedding, like I said before, it should be only … (View Post)
@phira - I think that is the typical "well, I will bend for him" attitude when you say you're not sure if you're just being stubborn. NO, that means you are using your backbone an… (View Post)
I've held off saying much as well, but I think that postponing the wedding to take the pressure off of any work you do in therapy together will help. Maybe J won't see it that way, but havi… (View Post)