Waiting patiently for you to post Prudie. After the response to that 2nd letter, there is no way that @hmonkey will convince us that she's not Prudie. (View Post)
your wedding, your way. you don't need to justify to anyone. ignore them. the "polite" response would be: "I'm sorry that you and your H will be unable to join us." END OF DISCUSS… (View Post)
opinions are like buttholes - everyone has one, and most of them stink. ETA: really, you'll never please everyone. do what makes you and your FI happy. (View Post)