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I definitely see your point, and I'll be the first to agree that the tradition itself is rooted in sexist origins. I don't think that many would argue against that. I think the issue I have is the q… (View Post)

I think there are plenty of non-sexist reasons a man may wish for his wife to take his name versus taking hers - assuming that they agree on the desire to share a name. For example - Sense of pride … (View Post)

To clarify, he is by no means mandating that I take his name, nor is his family or mine. He has expressed to me a few times that it's important to him that I take it, given me his reasons, and I made… (View Post)

OK, glad I'm not the only one who sees it this way! Thanks for the input, ladies. Just wanted to make sure I wasn't making a total etiquette faux pas by only thanking her in person.  (View Post)

Hi Knotties, I need some “intimates” help... My dress is very form-fitting in the butt and hips, so I’m not really sure what underwear would be best. For the top I’m having cups sewn in, but I’m in n… (View Post)