Tyvm member

@indigo26 Yeah, that sucks. The best you can do is become increasingly vague and not ask her opinion on things. Like, anything. Maybe not even the death of her friend's partner. I kept getting burned… (View Post)

@banana468 And half of Americans would have trouble finding $400 for an emergency! The Atlantic wrote an article on this recently: http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2016/05/my-secret-shame/… (View Post)

I think I like the top one, with the slightly less script as it'll likely be more legible. But it's hard to see how the invitations differ in the two photos, they're so small and either cut off or ou… (View Post)

@geebee908 I never said I was going to change the culture of TK single-handedly, you said it. All I'm saying is that I am allowed to endorse being gentler to the newbies, and to act on that belief. … (View Post)

@flantastic I'm just endorsing a slightly gentler approach to talking to newbies. Allying a bit instead of attacking. And in this case it was successful. OP does indeed have a back-up plan, and she w… (View Post)