It appears most people missed OP's update. To recap:This was never a "couples shower". OP should not have used that terminology. It is not the terminology that was used in planning the eve… (View Post)
In fact in the OP it states that the host asked the groom for his guest list. Unless she specifically stated it was to be a female only guest list she has no right to be upset by the idea of him inc… (View Post)