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Oh JFC. You are allowed to ask you friends for help. They aren't obligated to do anything for you. And it is not an honor to them if they do. This is asinine. No I don't think I *deserve* or am *owed… (View Post)

As soon as you invite other people, the day is no longer just about you. Your bridal party are not props. They are real people, most of whom would like to sit with their dates. Is it the end of the … (View Post)

I think the idea is to harass everyone entering the cocktail hour to sign it? (View Post)

For me, what bothers me, is acting as if it's an honor. If you truly need any of those things done, by all means, ask your friend to do you a favor - I would certainly say yes if it only interfered … (View Post)

Those tasks are chores not honors. It's nice of him to offer, but there's nothing to honor him with. But if you insist on it, I would just leave it as personal attendant - gender doesn't seem implied… (View Post)