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Okay, so that says to me you still don't understand that you're trying to dictate how and when and on what your FILs spend their own money. The difference isn't between means and desire. If they hav… (View Post)

You bet we talked to both our families, about location AND dates AND budget. And we kept them in the loop about all of our plans, from what would be on the menu so we could accommodate food allergies… (View Post)

Thanks :) Brown recluses are nasty. One of my mom's co-workers lost a finger to a bite, and she was out for a really long time. I'm so paranoid I think every bite is a recluse. Hopefully it isn't, b… (View Post)

1st bolded: Stop trying to dictate how your FILs spend their money. What business is it of yours if they spend $4k or $40k on a personal vacation, but don't want to spend the same on your wedding? A… (View Post)

If you weren't looking for an apology, why would you even call to tell them how many feelings were hurt by your FI's actions and his family's not-unexpected response? If anyone's feeling should have… (View Post)