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What's wrong with being aggressive? While you don't need to be rude, there is nothing wrong with putting your foot down and telling the consultant that you are going to be in charge. You are a custom… (View Post)

The problem is that if you keep pacifying her and going for "self-preservation", she learns that she can get whatever she wants and no one will tell her otherwise. She is demanding and set… (View Post)

Don't engage him in the conversation when it comes up. Shut it down as soon as he gets into the pissing contest about who has done more. Just tell him that you have made your decision and it is fina… (View Post)

Typing is all caps is considered yelling on the internet. Don't you get offended when people yell at you? (View Post)

But how do you know the financial situation of every person on your guest list? I didn't go telling everyone that I know when I was having trouble getting by. My best friends and immediate family kn… (View Post)