I think it's kind of crappy to have ushers honestly. They have to pay to rent the tux and do "work" by seating people but they don't get to stand up for the couple. (View Post)
I assume she is a very good friend for you to be in her wedding. In that case I would try to make it work. I would say, "hey, the dress is out of my budget but I will make it work. I will be doi… (View Post)