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I would go with #3. Absolutely pay for her dress if that's the main reason for her thinking she may need to back out. Let her make a decision regarding the bachelorette party as it is not required an… (View Post)

Don't get married now and do a "wedding" later. If you want to live with your FI, do it but make sure you are comfortable with it (sounds like you're not). If you're old enough to get marri… (View Post)

If you get legally married now, that is a wedding ceremony. You could have a "celebration of marriage" party later....but to me that is silly. If you want to get married now, contact everyo… (View Post)

I think having your guests seated from ~6pm (when you "run away" and get re-introduced) until after 8:15 pm when dessert is served is WAY TOO LONG. Also, IMHO it's really silly to be at you… (View Post)

I would do salty/savory but light as your late night snack. We put out a popcorn bar and had different toppings set out (cheese, garlic salt, salt/pepper/, m$ms). We also had cupcakes instead of cake! (View Post)