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Junior prom my best guy friend was about to move to another state. He went to a different school, and our proms were on the same night, so I agreed to go to his and miss mine. It was a really fun tim… (View Post)

I had a craptacular (literally) start to my birthday with an amazing end. FYI, probably animal-related-TMI below. I mentioned a few days ago that DF and I adopted a precious pup from the Humane Socie… (View Post)

Well it is also @charcoalandblush's (spelling?) birthday! Although I don't think she is 30. So cheers to us! I am cracking open bottle of wine. ---- stupid boxes, don't you know that i'm the birthday… (View Post)

- My biodad's name will be on the invites, even though he isn't hosing. DF's parents, my mom and my stepdad are hosting, biodad is basically just showing up with his GF, but it seemed cruel to leave … (View Post)

This is what I'm wondering. Why is the gender, specifically, such a big secret? ETA: But I totally get keeping the name a secret. People get super judgey and weird about names, and I wouldn't want to… (View Post)