I agree that this is a decision for the couple, not the crowd. However, I do feel your reply was a bit harsh only because it didn't really account for how FI feels (this may have been clearer in real… (View Post)
You've done what you can. You publicized the rules and made it clear it was not just your preference but also the site rules (though either one alone should be plenty). You can't totally stop other a… (View Post)
PPs pretty much have things covered. I just wanted to add a thought/take -- If you make any changes post-STD or post-invite, it is your job to notify people, not their job to somehow find out. (View Post)
I wouldn't go to CL for "sitters," but my first thought was to just have some folks there early and seated at the table(s) in question. Depending on your area, they might be able to leave … (View Post)