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I’m obviously dying to know how much the bonus is
I’d wait until being engaged to have the merging finances talk. They both already sound financially responsible- I imagine they’d want to pay them off asap but either way I don’t think this is the point in their relationship for that talk.
LW shouldn’t have signed her name as petty, it’s fine to arrive early, select her favorite seat and want to stay there.
Whether it’s mass, storytime at the library, etc., when I’m with my kids (esp without H), I arrive early so I can get seats towards the back and on the aisle. So prime latecomer seats. Whenever I’m asked to scootch over I decline but shift so they can climb over me. Sometimes it’s met with an eye roll and walk away, other times the seat seeker accepts. I’ve never felt guilty.
Does LW’s small town not have a post office? She can research organizations and when she finds her favorite, ship the kids’ stuff. Although I don’t see what’s wrong with donating to the secondhand store she mentioned.
Regular sex + good sleep sounds great to me, regardless of who’s sleeping where. But LW should definitely have a discussion with her SO about closeness and her needs, if it’s bothering her.
No point deleting your posts, you’ve been quoted. You have unreasonable expectations of your friends. Why do they have to go see your venue? Why were they supposed to help you with engagement party? And if they’re not allowed to think/talk about their hypothetical weddings someday, you shouldn’t be worried about having to help them with these weddings.