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  • Re: You need to have a full-out financial goals discussion.

    I’m obviously dying to know how much the bonus is  :D

    I’d wait until being engaged to have the merging finances talk.  They both already sound financially responsible- I imagine they’d want to pay them off asap but either way I don’t think this is the point in their relationship for that talk.
    short+sassyMissKittyDanger
  • Re: Nope

    LW shouldn’t have signed her name as petty, it’s fine to arrive early, select her favorite seat and want to stay there.  
    Whether it’s mass, storytime at the library, etc., when I’m with my kids (esp without H), I arrive early so I can get seats towards the back and on the aisle.  So prime latecomer seats.  Whenever I’m asked to scootch over I decline but shift so they can climb over me.  Sometimes it’s met with an eye roll and walk away, other times the seat seeker accepts.  I’ve never felt guilty.
    charlotte989875short+sassy
  • Re: Sell the clothes on social media and donate the money?

    Does LW’s small town not have a post office?  She can research organizations and when she finds her favorite, ship the kids’ stuff.  Although I don’t see what’s wrong with donating to the secondhand store she mentioned.
    VarunaTTcharlotte989875short+sassyJen4948
  • Re: Well-rested vs. sharing a bed

    Regular sex + good sleep sounds great to me, regardless of who’s sleeping where.  But LW should definitely have a discussion with her SO about closeness and her needs, if it’s bothering her. 
    charlotte989875
  • Re: Aaa

    No point deleting your posts, you’ve been quoted. You have unreasonable expectations of your friends.  Why do they have to go see your venue? Why were they supposed to help you with engagement party?  And if they’re not allowed to think/talk about their hypothetical weddings someday, you shouldn’t be worried about having to help them with these weddings.
    MissKittyDanger