UPDATE: So, now all our friends know because, apparently, she was bitching about my decision not to come. And the question was asked, "why did you invite our SO's and not hers?" And accord… (View Post)
I just texted her again (the first time was last night) just now, and said, "hiya, I'm really sorry but I won't be able to make it. I hope everything goes really well, have a fabulous day."… (View Post)
I've kinda given up. No other friends know about this - I'm not going to make it into a huge hoo-hah over it. But it'll be interesting. "Why isn't OP at the hen party/wedding? Oh, why's she decl… (View Post)
I replied, "I'm afraid not. I'm a little bit hurt that, on the day you're declaring your love (which is great, by the way, and we wish you all the best) that our relationship is not considered. … (View Post)