Not dumb, especially since you've already said you're sort of a people-pleaser. It can be a hard habit to break. Go to, AZ, or wherever else you want to go. Don't tell anyone, and then when you get b… (View Post)
You can always not tell them you're going on vacations either. Honestly I would cut everyone out and just go with your FI somewhere. Don't tell anyone, anything. (View Post)