You seem like a good friend who is coming from the right place. Yes, BMs are usually involved in planning and/or attending those events, but as PPs said, they are not required. If she can't, she can'… (View Post)
We apparently had the same childhood. If I was with ONLY my very very best girlfriends and we were having a silly, wine-filled girls night, I would possibly consider this - but more likely if it jus… (View Post)
Eeek. I get that she is trying to come up with a cost-effective activity for the party, but I'll be honest... I don't get why you (general you) need an entertainment portion for a bachelorette? I've … (View Post)
People definitely have fucked up ideas about what bridesmaids are supposed to do, and will tell you that you have shitty friends if they don't live up to those "responsibilities." During ou… (View Post)
To the bolded - are all guests in attendance (with the exception of SOs) part of this friend group that grew up doing this together? If I was attending but not part of that group, I think I'd feel a… (View Post)