For lurkers-- the lesson to be learned from this situation is only put VIPs on an engagement party guest list, especially if wedding planning is going to be put off for any length of time. (View Post)
FTR, I don't think that just because you're getting married you get to tell anyone what to wear. Adults get to dress themselves and that includes wedding parties. I'd like to see coordinated wedding … (View Post)
And this is why you should just let people wear the shoes they want/have and not worry about everything matching. Your bridesmaids' shoes aren't a thing people really notice (unless they're a really … (View Post)
If she'd included her previous SO as a named guest on the invitation as she should have done etiquette-wise, she might have the option of saying no, but even there she'd be treading on thin ice by sa… (View Post)