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My mom taught me this "rule" as a kid, so I've always said, "I'm so excited for you!!!" or "I'm so happy for you!" but since becoming engaged myself, sooooo many people… (View Post)

I'd let FI make the call, too. Isn't that how they say you can tell an abuser though? They start out by cutting people off from their family and friends? I'm not calling her an abuser, but I would ke… (View Post)

I think even with the 4 hour thing (not ideal, but that's been beaten to death and you seem to realize it) you'll still have an awesome day. After all, you're marrying the man of your dreams. (View Post)

Um, etiquette is about thinking of others' comfort. It's VERY important. I don't get the four hour gap, but aside from that, I don't get the 45 minute drive between the ceremony and reception. If you… (View Post)

Well, so much for me trying to be nice... I don't mean the time. I mean the location. I get that it's probably your church and that it's sentimental, but your guests don't know that. And your guests'… (View Post)