Just call him and either talk to him or leave a voicemail to say (call him, don't send him an email or Facebook message): The invitation was mean for you and [SO] only. We unfortunately cannot accomm… (View Post)
Keep telling them no. They're not getting the hint from you jokes. And I I would absolutely not have food or seats provided to them. The waitstaff should be instructed not to give a meal to anyone wi… (View Post)
I agree with this. I think that you are fine to give them a deadline and inform them that it they can't provide a definite answer by that deadline, that you will have to put them down as a no. You sh… (View Post)
You are absolutely okay to cut non-WP members (and their SOs) from the list. Extended family members are not required rehearsal dinner guests. I can imagine it's adding up quickly for you. Oh and wha… (View Post)
Programs are helpful for church weddings where there are prayers, hymns and various "motions" to go through that some guests may not be familiar with. Otherwise, they are not necessary. Sam… (View Post)