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You think well. Go with your original plan of listing the actual start time on the invite. People generally don't arrive right at the start time - they come earlier so that they can get good seats wi… (View Post)

Am I missing a punch line? This makes me so sad. No one should be sacrificing their comfort here. The most unselfish, respectful, comfortable and ADULT solution here is to be adults and let everyone … (View Post)

I don't understand how it's okay to expect "family tradition" to dictate a wedding. If I had followed my "family traditions", I would have let my DH pull my garter off with his te… (View Post)

Great point. I'm sure nseguin went around to invitees and asked if the message was okay and everyone said, "Yeah, sure," and wondered how stupid she thought they were. (View Post)

I'm sorry, I can't agree with or support what you did. I urge you to re-think including a note on your invitation. Give your guests the benefit of the doubt - I'd imagine they are smart and considera… (View Post)