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Do you have any mutual friends that you can ask so you can get a sense of if invites have been sent? is the other plan likely to book up or become unavailable? Can you do it another weekend? has the … (View Post)

A RD can absolutely be super formal and are rarely held at the same venue! My RD will be in a private room of an upscale restaurant. We’re having a cocktail hour with passed apps and cocktails a plat… (View Post)

What about a nice intimate rehearsal dinner and then the apps reception the next day? Everyone expects rehearsal dinners to be small intimate events so you don’t risk offending. Then you can enjoy a … (View Post)

Same here - I don’t really want to argue about it but I’m just simply not going to default to erasing a woman’s name. But since this is “improper” it’s not immediately obvious what the cleanest way … (View Post)

Yeah, but it doesn't sound like any of this is the case - like the hosts of the wedding aren't upset with the guest list or relative extravagance of the wedding. And I feel like the comment on the s… (View Post)