I don't think anyone suggested this was an etiquette issue. The only thing that is suggested is that if the FBIL wants his brother at the wedding he needs to check when the brother is available befor… (View Post)
While I agree that gaps are rude, the attitude towards rudeness is subjective. It is perfectly fine not to feel offended by something that is rude. It does not mean one lacks understanding, it just … (View Post)