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So tell your FI he is not to argue with her, especially in a way that - as explained repeatedly by PPs - is basically demanding money. Then, take ten steps back. Realize your FI is wrong because you… (View Post)

There have been several occasions when I have wanted to argue with my FILs because, IMO, they said something condescending or annoying or just plain wrong. But I would never ever in a million years a… (View Post)

Thanks @kimmiinthemitten! I didn't mean to imply we were only interested in a certain area of Miami - I literally know nothing about the city, so really anywhere in/around Miami is cool with us. We'l… (View Post)

You're marrying the guy, right? So why can't you just talk to him? Tell him what you think - that it's asking a lot of guests. I'm not sure why this required an essay explanation. FWIW, I agree that… (View Post)

Okay, so for my 27th birthday (which was in January), I had people over, which is what I do most years. It's not a gift giving event at all - at most, people bring a bottle of wine or some beer, whic… (View Post)