OP, I think you'd find it helpful to read this thread, particularly the posts about the pressure to conform to other people's standards when you don't come from a "normal" family. http://fo… (View Post)
As someone planning an OOS wedding, I think you're spot on for #2 (well #1 too!) We choose our location in part to keep it small and limit it to family and closest friends. That said, we realize it … (View Post)
Thanks. Sun tea sounds great. For welcome bags, water and a snack are always nice. Is there a snack or something that is known at your destination? We're also including a local map, welcome note &… (View Post)
It sounds like we are hosting similar weddings, so at the risk of sounded biased, I think you've covered the bases nicely :) I agree that water / iced tea etc would be fine pre-ceremony. If you can s… (View Post)