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I know that my husband's employer does not treat domestic partnerships as marriages when it comes to benefits because same-sex marriage has been legal here for more than 10 years. So, since ever… (View Post)

My idea of semi-formal is NOT floor-length gowns, so. Listen: I've gotten married. I didn't notice what other people wore. I thought I would. My husband has two friends who are notorious fo… (View Post)

One thing I regret about wedding planning is that I *didn't* wait to ask bridesmaids, and I ended up having two of them back out and it was really upsetting. So, WAIT. If your fiancé pushes you,… (View Post)

You'll be okay; have your dress hemmed normally. You might need to go a little slowly and lift your skirt up with one hand, but it's really not very thought-intensive while you're doin… (View Post)

It can be REALLY easy to plan before you're engaged. I think many of us have seriously been there, especially if we didn't find the NEY board well enough ahead of time. But there's so … (View Post)