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As others have said, if you want to salvage this relationship then you can't kick her out as that will have the opposite effect. Stop pleading with her. Stop acknowledging her comments. What you… (View Post)

Also, the "this is OUR big day and we are very particular about the people and energy we want around us" logic is used by couples to justify NOT inviting significant others so make sure yo… (View Post)

Agreed, I would not call that candy apple red.  (View Post)

This is what always boggles my mind. If it's "just" a piece of paper, then why bother with it? Why not just put on your pretty dress and have some kind of commitment ceremony or some … (View Post)

This. Treat this like a vacation rather than a destination "wedding" and go do something else. (View Post)