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I think it's completely fine that you want to keep the budget private, and there's no reason she can't ensure that happens. No one besides me or the consultant pulled any dresses, so no one even had … (View Post)

Typically the bride doesn't pay, but I wouldn't necessaily assume that would be the case, especially when you are all renting a house for two nights since that's a lot of money to ask of people. In a… (View Post)

Nope. You could choose to do an appetizer reception (still provide the equivalent amount of food as a dinner) for everyone, but it's SO rude to invite peope in tiers. We were invited to my H's cousi… (View Post)

I would definitely go with friend B. The role is one of honor, not as a payback for someone else who had you in their wedding or to help repair or even strengthen a friendship. I'm not sure if there … (View Post)

If you don't want a shower, don't have one. End of story....no other parties needed to make up for it. I'm not a fan of showers myself, and I declined all offers of them. I had a bachelorette but no … (View Post)