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To be honest, IDGAF about pretty much every etiquette rule (the list of rules I care about is significantly smaller than the ones I don't), but this is the only one I'll comment on at length. I woul… (View Post)

Thanks for the feedback! That was what I was kind of leaning towards...like, I think they would all really enjoy it for the day but my concern was that it would end up in the donate pile, so I apprec… (View Post)

FMIL is a doctor and didn't change her name. Whenever there are fancy work parties, his dad calls them "Mr. [FMIL's last name] Events." Whenever anyone used to say, "Oh, you must be M… (View Post)

I love how the people who prepare themselves for snark are always the ones who are asking wholly reasonable things, and deserve nothing but love back. :) (View Post)

I think it's tacky when brides change dresses because "LOOK HOW MUCH MONEY I CAN THROW AROUND" or "I CAN NEVER BE SEEN IN THE SAME DRESS TWICE ZOMG" but in your situation, where i… (View Post)