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Maybe I missed something, but where were his objections when you were dating? You'd think this would have come up sooner. I agree with the suggestions that there's some projection going on here. Your… (View Post)

So long as you don't treat it like a wedding with vows and all that, and so long as you make it really clear on your invitations that this is a post-wedding party, not a wedding, you'll be fine. (View Post)

I am super sick of looking at mason jars BUT I have to say, I really like the lemon one you posted. It's colorful and will smell nice and it's not "LOOK HOW RUSTIC I AM" so much as "He… (View Post)

I'm new here but I've already learned that one thing is guaranteed to get a bad reaction: having a wedding ceremony when you're already married. It looks like you're trying to avoid that impression, … (View Post)