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I think keeping the guest list small will be the best way to keep your costs down. It will minimize the costs due to per-person expenses like food, beverage, etc. But even more than that, a small ven… (View Post)

I think Facebook invites are tacky and rude. To me it screams: I didn't care enough to send you a personal message or take any time or money to create a written invitation or even an e-invite. And mo… (View Post)

It was thoughtful of you to accommodate your bridesmaids proclaimed veganism. I am a vegetarian and I recognize that in social eating situations, my food options will often be restricted. Personally … (View Post)

Yep. I hate bridal showers and I feel like I usually only attend under duress (ie: I feel guilted into going). I do not really enjoy showers in general (baby or bridal) and bridal showers always fee… (View Post)

I would go to a local Thursday night wedding and probably would not be bothered by it. However, I would probably not drive an hour for a Thursday night wedding and unless I REALLY adored the couple b… (View Post)