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1. Re: Bridesmaides

   

   Reply by hlq2011 · September 2010 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Wedding Etiquette Forum

   While I agree with PP's that you can ask whoever you want, which is as it should be, I think that, generally, it's expected that siblings, not necessarily siblings-in-law, will be in a wedding. I am not a bridesmaid in FH's sister's wedding, and did not expect to be. FH is a groomsman in his sister's wedding. FH's sisters…

2. Bridesmaides

   

   Discussion by [Deleted User] · September 2010 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Wedding Etiquette Forum

   I don't know what to do. My fiance's brother just got married and his sister is getting married next month. We were not engaged for his brother's wedding so I was not asked to be in the bridal party. His sister didn't ask me to be in her wedding next month. Do I have to ask my future sister-inlaws to be in mine? And if I…

3. Re: Bridesmaides

   

   Reply by LuckyBrideToBe0013 · September 2010 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Wedding Etiquette Forum

   I think that you can ask anyone you want, but you should be prepared for any consequences. I had been dating my then BF for 3 years when his sister got married and was not a bridesmaid. Dating four years when his brother got married and was in the wedding party. I had already been friendly with FI's brothers then GF, but…

4. Re: Bridesmaides

   

   Reply by megk8oz · September 2010 · Home› Wedding Discussion Boards› Wedding Etiquette Forum

   I don't really see why either of his sisters would have been obligated on any level to include you in their WP, unless they were by chance marrying one of your brothers. Their marriages aren't joining your and your FI's families. Your marriage to your FI is. That being said, while it's not against the law to exclude the…