OK so here is some back round information. My fiance and I are planning a June 2012 wedding. We have everything set in place for it to happen and I'm super excited for it all!!!
We recently moved into our first apartment together. He is active guard reserves so we have no on base housing. I'm a student and working part-time and we are just making enough money to pay the bills. So my fiance asked me if I would be willing to do a JOP and then do the whole big wedding thing in June like we originally planned. Because we would make almost $600 more a month being married.
I don't know what to do though. On one hand it would be nice to have that extra money and we could get caught up on all our bills and then we could go on an awesome honeymoon. But I'm worried that our wedding won't be as special. We'll already be married.Plus I don't know how people would look at our wedding since we'd already be married.
I don't want to give up any aspect of my "dream" wedding. I'm already giving up a lot because of our money situation. So I guess I'm looking for opinions and some advice on all of this. Please give me some help.