This is my first draft. Please give opinions. Also maybe I'm just not getting this or something, but okay you have your personal vows that you say, what exactly are these in place of? And then do you have the whole exchange the rings after these? Is that a different set of vows or does that not count as vows at all? Someone please explain this all too me. We are having a nondenominational religious ceremony if that helps anyone explain this. I noticed there were different traditional vows for different ceremonies.

Jason,

I love you so much. You’ve given me so much in our relationship. You’ve given me your friendship. I know I can tell you anything and you won’t judge me even if I’m having a blonde moment. You’ve given me your support. You’ve let me drive you crazy with all my OCD planning and list but you’ve always supported all my decisions. You’ve given me love. You’ve loved me more than I knew I could be loved. Every day I think about how much you care for me and I’m just amazed that I have someone in my life like you that does love me as much as you do.  You’ve given me headaches. Yes we fight, and you drive me crazy sometimes, but we always make up within an hour of the fight.  And most importantly you’ve given me the most precious thing in my life. You’ve given me our daughter Kadee. I love our daughter more than I even knew could be possible, and I love you even more for blessing me with her.

I promise to always love you. I promise to be the best wife and mother I can possibly be. I promise to take care of you when you’re sick and acting like a little baby. I promise to try not to correct you every time you say something dumb. I promise to be a Godly woman and to help raise our children with those same beliefs. I promise to give you that extra push when you need it. And I promise to support anything you ever want to do in life…….that isn’t too dangerous.  
                I love you and I’m so excited to make our little family official and continuing to live and love with you and Kadee.