I was thinking the same thing. We got a k tnx bye. Then the discussion was closed. So much for wanting to talk it out with us. Instead she's concerned about getting to her weekend.
what the hell....why not just ignore a poster if you are having an issue??? If they send you a PM it is your property to do with as you see fit. This shouldn't be up for debate.
oh no. there was just no need for us to talk. She said she wanted to us to tell her what we think she should do and then she'd tell us what she was going to do. That's the kind of logic you use with a frekin three year old.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_not-closed?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:0d6c33dc-d444-497f-908a-15629709fe19Post:d7bbcdbc-bb1a-43e7-aa35-34beb3f05929">Re: NOT CLOSED</a>: [QUOTE]I don't think she was expecting unanimous disagreement with her idea. <strong>But, rest assured, that the deleting of Km's post and closing of the thread with a flippant dismissal TOTES corrected my previous impression of a lack of maturity.</strong> For serious. Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE] agreed. What a bunch of nonsense.
In Response to Re: NOT CLOSED: "I have to leave. Can someone go back and C&P what she said. I wouldn't put it past her ti DD some things." Here you go!
I appreciate you all telling me what you think. Rest assured, you will be aware when we make changes to the TOS outlining not only what happens when you PM someone with a hate message, but what exactly constitutes a 'hate message'. Stay tuned.
Til then, it's Friday and 5'olock somewhere. Enjoy your weekends.
In Response to Re:NOT CLOSED:[QUOTE]I have to leave.nbsp; Can someone go back and Camp;P what she said.nbsp; I wouldn't put it past her ti DD some things. Posted by GoodLuckBear14[/QUOTE].
Please someone paste the whole thread in a word doc.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_not-closed?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:0d6c33dc-d444-497f-908a-15629709fe19Post:f3a3a9ee-26c2-4f39-80eb-decec5ff820c">Re: NOT CLOSED</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: NOT CLOSED : "I have to leave. Can someone go back and C&P what she said. I wouldn't put it past her ti DD some things." Here you go! I appreciate you all telling me what you think. Rest assured, you will be aware when we make changes to the TOS outlining not only what happens when you PM someone with a hate message, but what exactly constitutes a 'hate message'. Stay tuned. <strong>Til then, it's Friday and 5'olock somewhere. Enjoy your weekends. </strong>Posted by mandi195[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_not-closed?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:0d6c33dc-d444-497f-908a-15629709fe19Post:51bbec35-4d01-4bde-b018-331469b00e37">Re: NOT CLOSED</a>: [QUOTE]My post got straight DELETED as well, so she could have the last word. Posted by kmbryant2413[/QUOTE]
I thought I saw you had a post but, then I refreshed and it was gone.
I make another argument in predictability here....I assert that TJ's comments, having the last word, and closing the thread will continue to bloat the proportion of the entire topic.
You'll never be subject to a cash bar, gap, potluck wedding, or b-list if you
marry a Muppet Overlord.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_not-closed?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:0d6c33dc-d444-497f-908a-15629709fe19Post:fd96496c-87f0-4eb9-911a-fcf9ceba9f1f">Re: NOT CLOSED</a>: [QUOTE]The patients are running the asylum now. Awesome. Posted by Viczaesar[/QUOTE]
I foresee these changes:
Pretty please try not to make meanie old messages to people.
But if you do... Rest assured they are SUPER DOOPER PRIVATE and can't be posted, so you're protected! Oh, and unless you say something negative about race or sexual orientation, it won't be considered hate mail... Unless it is a reg PMing a newbie bride. Then it will be. Because regs are mean bad people. Especially that Stage lady.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_not-closed?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:0d6c33dc-d444-497f-908a-15629709fe19Post:d7bbcdbc-bb1a-43e7-aa35-34beb3f05929">Re: NOT CLOSED</a>: [QUOTE]I don't think she was expecting unanimous disagreement with her idea. But, rest assured, that the deleting of Km's post and closing of the thread with a flippant dismissal TOTES corrected my previous impression of a lack of maturity. For serious. Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]
<strong><u>No one</u> </strong>expects that when they post here!! Including myself at the beginning.... I've also learned to phrase my content carefully and to read objectively vs defensively and appreciate the honesty.
If it weren't for the opinions, I'd have a Honeymoon registry that may or may not be offensive to my family and $300 worth of beer glasses with our name on it that no one wants.
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You'll never be subject to a cash bar, gap, potluck wedding, or b-list if you
marry a Muppet Overlord.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_not-closed?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:0d6c33dc-d444-497f-908a-15629709fe19Post:2319d95d-fd2c-4044-9920-8d79cb74976a">Re: NOT CLOSED</a>: [QUOTE]I foresee these changes: Pretty please try not to make meanie old messages to people. But if you do... Rest assured they are SUPER DOOPER PRIVATE and can't be posted, so you're protected! Oh, and unless you say something negative about race or sexual orientation, it won't be considered hate mail... Unless it is a reg PMing a newbie bride. Then it will be. Because regs are mean bad people. <strong>Especially that Stage lady.</strong> Posted by ZiggyZos[/QUOTE] This had me giggling!
"Love is not affectionate feeling, but a steady wish for the loved person's ultimate good as far as it can be obtained"-C.S. Lewis
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_not-closed?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:0d6c33dc-d444-497f-908a-15629709fe19Post:eea119a9-2cc7-4a19-aeeb-794d53720923">Re: NOT CLOSED</a>: [QUOTE]I just...don't ever get this. I could be wrong about this, but I'm assuming that TK makes advertising money based at least partially on the number of visits to their site daily. And I guarantee that all of the regs up the number of clicks to the site significantly more than any newbie who throws a fit because they don't know how to lurk and post something completely counter to the culture here. So why is it that the regs consistently get lectured for creating a community and giving us all a reason to come here every day (i.e. a reason to keep traffic to the site high)? It seems like TK would want to address the issues that the regs have, rather than trying to drive them away. I heart all of you guys, and don't plan on GBCKing any time soon, but some days it's just too much. Sorry Stage for the stupid things that were said to / about you, but thanks as always for standing up to stupidity! Posted by kwitherington[/QUOTE]
Considering the INCREDIBLE decline to board members since the last time I used TK , I think they've been missing boats here. Every.single.one. of my vendors feel like the Knot jumped the shark after 2009. T
You'll never be subject to a cash bar, gap, potluck wedding, or b-list if you
marry a Muppet Overlord.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_not-closed?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:0d6c33dc-d444-497f-908a-15629709fe19Post:d8e88e87-0d52-4bb8-874b-34e3e824ac18">Re: NOT CLOSED</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: NOT CLOSED : Me too. No one has ever accused me of being a lady before. :) Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]
Well, The Knot Gods wouldn't exactly post "That Stage Beyotch"... It doesn't fit their unicorns and rainbows.
[QUOTE]<span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:12px;background-color:#ffffff;">And by the way, PMs that I have received that DIDN'T get posted, because I didn't even find them until months after the fact included </span><div style="background-color:#ffffff;border:0px;font-size:12px;margin:0px;outline:0px;padding:0px;vertical-align:baseline;font-family:Arial;"> </div><div style="background-color:#ffffff;border:0px;font-size:12px;margin:0px;outline:0px;padding:0px;vertical-align:baseline;font-family:Arial;">- one calling me a <strong>hillbilly pigfarmer</strong> because I posted a photo of my FIL in overalls at my wedding to help calm the worries of a new bride who was freaking out at the idea of her relatives wearing jeans to her wedding and let her know it would be okay.[/QUOTE]</div><div style="background-color:#ffffff;border:0px;font-size:12px;margin:0px;outline:0px;padding:0px;vertical-align:baseline;font-family:Arial;"> </div><div style="background-color:#ffffff;border:0px;font-size:12px;margin:0px;outline:0px;padding:0px;vertical-align:baseline;font-family:Arial;">This is what I replied to on the thread. All I posted was that I got a good laugh out of it because it reminded me of my favorite insult, which is calling someone a 'pigfvcker'. It came right after KJ's post and she politely swept it under the rug.</div>
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_not-closed?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:0d6c33dc-d444-497f-908a-15629709fe19Post:41ff9675-5039-4630-ad73-675b5acf662d">Re: NOT CLOSED</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: NOT CLOSED : OH GOD that really prevented us from <strong>getting the last word in</strong>. Posted by tarradesign[/QUOTE]
I'm all for posting hate mail. The reciepant of a letter/email etc is the owner. How are we supposed to call someone out on bad behavior when they're being a coward and sending hateful PMs.
BTW when I was on my phone I noticed someone in the thread got banned. Anyone know who it was?
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_not-closed?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:0d6c33dc-d444-497f-908a-15629709fe19Post:53dd725f-d5e9-4265-b49e-2dfd936b7434">Re: NOT CLOSED</a>: [QUOTE]I'm all for posting hate mail. The reciepant of a letter/email etc is the owner. How are we supposed to call someone out on bad behavior when they're being a coward and sending hateful PMs. BTW when I was on my phone I noticed someone in the thread got banned. Anyone know who it was? Posted by HobokenBride2012[/QUOTE] Say whaaaa????
What did you think would happen if you walked up to a group of internet strangers and told them to get shoehorned by their lady doc?~StageManager14
Re: NOT CLOSED
'Next time, just fart.' - BriSox81
June 1, 2013 - finally making it official!
[QUOTE]I don't think she was expecting unanimous disagreement with her idea. <strong>But, rest assured, that the deleting of Km's post and closing of the thread with a flippant dismissal TOTES corrected my previous impression of a lack of maturity.</strong> For serious.
Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]
agreed. What a bunch of nonsense.
"I have to leave. Can someone go back and C&P what she said. I wouldn't put it past her ti DD some things."
Here you go!
Please someone paste the whole thread in a word doc.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: NOT CLOSED : "I have to leave. Can someone go back and C&P what she said. I wouldn't put it past her ti DD some things." Here you go! I appreciate you all telling me what you think. Rest assured, you will be aware when we make changes to the TOS outlining not only what happens when you PM someone with a hate message, but what exactly constitutes a 'hate message'. Stay tuned. <strong>Til then, it's Friday and 5'olock somewhere. Enjoy your weekends.
</strong>Posted by mandi195[/QUOTE]
Too late.
[QUOTE]My post got straight DELETED as well, so she could have the last word.
Posted by kmbryant2413[/QUOTE]
I thought I saw you had a post but, then I refreshed and it was gone.
Weird, right?
You'll never be subject to a cash bar, gap, potluck wedding, or b-list if you marry a Muppet Overlord.
[QUOTE]The patients are running the asylum now. Awesome.
Posted by Viczaesar[/QUOTE]
<div>This got a serious laugh from me.</div>
'Next time, just fart.' - BriSox81
You'll never be subject to a cash bar, gap, potluck wedding, or b-list if you marry a Muppet Overlord.
[QUOTE]I don't think she was expecting unanimous disagreement with her idea. But, rest assured, that the deleting of Km's post and closing of the thread with a flippant dismissal TOTES corrected my previous impression of a lack of maturity. For serious.
Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]
<strong><u>No one</u> </strong>expects that when they post here!! Including myself at the beginning.... I've also learned to phrase my content carefully and to read objectively vs defensively and appreciate the honesty.
If it weren't for the opinions, I'd have a Honeymoon registry that may or may not be offensive to my family and $300 worth of beer glasses with our name on it that no one wants.
<a href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/11/0/6b909704-822b-4048-90b0-109909a98370.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo" class="PhotoLink"> <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/11/0/6b909704-822b-4048-90b0-109909a98370.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a>
You'll never be subject to a cash bar, gap, potluck wedding, or b-list if you marry a Muppet Overlord.
[QUOTE]I foresee these changes: Pretty please try not to make meanie old messages to people. But if you do... Rest assured they are SUPER DOOPER PRIVATE and can't be posted, so you're protected! Oh, and unless you say something negative about race or sexual orientation, it won't be considered hate mail... Unless it is a reg PMing a newbie bride. Then it will be. Because regs are mean bad people. <strong>Especially that Stage lady.</strong>
Posted by ZiggyZos[/QUOTE]
This had me giggling!
Married! May 27th, 2012
Websites/blogs where our wedding has been featured:
http://www.dapperq.com/2013/11/a-very-dapper-wedding/
http://www.onabicyclebuiltfortwo.com/2013/10/wedding-christina-g.html
http://4realequalityweddings.com/2014/05/16/g-christina/
[QUOTE]I just...don't ever get this. I could be wrong about this, but I'm assuming that TK makes advertising money based at least partially on the number of visits to their site daily. And I guarantee that all of the regs up the number of clicks to the site significantly more than any newbie who throws a fit because they don't know how to lurk and post something completely counter to the culture here. So why is it that the regs consistently get lectured for creating a community and giving us all a reason to come here every day (i.e. a reason to keep traffic to the site high)? It seems like TK would want to address the issues that the regs have, rather than trying to drive them away. I heart all of you guys, and don't plan on GBCKing any time soon, but some days it's just too much. Sorry Stage for the stupid things that were said to / about you, but thanks as always for standing up to stupidity!
Posted by kwitherington[/QUOTE]
Considering the INCREDIBLE decline to board members since the last time I used TK , I think they've been missing boats here. Every.single.one. of my vendors feel like the Knot jumped the shark after 2009. T
You'll never be subject to a cash bar, gap, potluck wedding, or b-list if you marry a Muppet Overlord.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: NOT CLOSED : Me too. No one has ever accused me of being a lady before. :)
Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]
Well, The Knot Gods wouldn't exactly post "That Stage Beyotch"... It doesn't fit their unicorns and rainbows.
</div><div style="background-color:#ffffff;border:0px;font-size:12px;margin:0px;outline:0px;padding:0px;vertical-align:baseline;font-family:Arial;">- one calling me a <strong>hillbilly pigfarmer</strong> because I posted a photo of my FIL in overalls at my wedding to help calm the worries of a new bride who was freaking out at the idea of her relatives wearing jeans to her wedding and let her know it would be okay.[/QUOTE]</div><div style="background-color:#ffffff;border:0px;font-size:12px;margin:0px;outline:0px;padding:0px;vertical-align:baseline;font-family:Arial;">
</div><div style="background-color:#ffffff;border:0px;font-size:12px;margin:0px;outline:0px;padding:0px;vertical-align:baseline;font-family:Arial;">This is what I replied to on the thread. All I posted was that I got a good laugh out of it because it reminded me of my favorite insult, which is calling someone a 'pigfvcker'. It came right after KJ's post and she politely swept it under the rug.</div>
'Next time, just fart.' - BriSox81
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: NOT CLOSED : OH GOD that really prevented us from <strong>getting the last word in</strong>.
Posted by tarradesign[/QUOTE]
<div>FTFY. Lulz.</div>
'Next time, just fart.' - BriSox81
BTW when I was on my phone I noticed someone in the thread got banned. Anyone know who it was?
[QUOTE]I'm all for posting hate mail. The reciepant of a letter/email etc is the owner. How are we supposed to call someone out on bad behavior when they're being a coward and sending hateful PMs. BTW when I was on my phone I noticed someone in the thread got banned. Anyone know who it was?
Posted by HobokenBride2012[/QUOTE]
Say whaaaa????