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ahoywedding
10/17/16 9:02PM

Is anyone concerned about Zika affecting their DW? We are not having a DW, but my sister is planning one for (an affected area). It's defini… Read more

10/17/16 9:02PM
Printing Own Invites
bookmaiden17_
10/17/16 4:57PM

A friend of mine is designing our invitations. There are two types that I am looking at a 5x7 or a seal and send (doesn't have an envelope).… Read more

10/17/16 4:57PM
Venue Cancelled!
winterberry6
10/17/16 4:00PM

I am getting married February 4th, 2017 and just last week my venue called and cancelled my reception, stating they are closing temporarily … Read more

10/17/16 4:00PM
How would you respond?
Fuchsiavision
10/16/16 9:32PM

Knotties, I need your help on this as my husband has been most upset over the behaviour of his mother and brother and wants to confront them… Read more

10/16/16 9:32PM
Intimidated by Dress Shopping
FoxandCrow
10/9/16 11:59PM

Hi folks, So, I have some bridal appointments coming up on the 22nd of this month. I made one in the morning at one salon, and another at 3… Read more

10/9/16 11:59PM
DIY Polaroid Guestbook
pslovesus2016
10/11/16 3:10PM

Hi everyone. I am having a tiny wedding in Palm Springs and two after parties one in my hometown and one where my fiancee and I live.  We … Read more

10/11/16 3:10PM

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Happy Monday!!!
lyndausvi
06/26/17 2:02PM

I had a great weekend.  The hike on Saturday was amazing.     Worked yesterday.     After a calmer head, him taking me off the weekend… Read more

06/26/17 2:02PM
MIL enabling my dad to drink
penguinpop
06/26/17 3:14PM

My dad has 2-3 martinis a night every night and completely blacks out. He will function like a normal person at night but will not remember … Read more

06/26/17 3:14PM
Wednesday
mrsconn23
06/21/17 1:13PM

What up kids? Wood painting was fun.   My sign turned out cute.  I just need to figure out where to hang it up.  Our lawnmower died las… Read more

06/21/17 1:13PM
Am I just free accommodation?
Australian_girl_in_Paris
06/21/17 6:00PM

So I have a quite good very old friend who contacted me to say could she come and stay with us; we live in Paris so this happens a lot, on h… Read more

06/21/17 6:00PM
Dinner ideas for a toddler
kaos16
06/26/17 6:11PM

Anyone have any good dinner ideas for a 1.5 year old?  I feel like we are in a dinner rut, and want to mix things up for him.  We always h… Read more

06/26/17 6:11PM
What should I do for dinner?
KahluaKoala
06/26/17 5:51PM

I'm having a scheduling / eating conflict and I want to see what you would all would do and see if you have any ideas or advice. I work a p… Read more

06/26/17 5:51PM
Vent and vibes
6fsn
06/21/17 7:22PM

MIL sent DH a text "call when you get home." around 2ish.  DH tried to call and his mom didn't answer but texted back "can't answer call b… Read more

06/21/17 7:22PM
Non-overnight bachelorette party
hales2010
06/26/17 1:43AM

So I have been given the task of planning the bachelorette party for a good friend of mine. I have planned one before so this usually isn't … Read more

06/26/17 1:43AM
How to address invitations for "ladies only" …
wakeamy1995
06/26/17 9:33PM

I'm going to be having a ladies only bridal shower, but all women/girls in the household are invited - Moms and daughters, regardless of age… Read more

06/26/17 9:33PM
Help choosing men's attire!
megtownxx
06/26/17 7:36PM

so this isn't etiquette related, but you all are sharp-eyed and i think could help me out here. FH and I need help choosing attire for all t… Read more

06/26/17 7:36PM
Autumn Honeymoon 2018 on a Budget?!
HowIMetMyLover
06/27/17 8:54AM

Hi there   My fiance (21) and I (20) were not blessed with amazing full-time jobs, yet, and not the richest of families. Lucky for us, we … Read more

06/27/17 8:54AM
Bouquet toss and Garter Songs
marine18-2
06/27/17 1:37AM

My DJ has an option on their sheet that I need to fill out for the Bouquet toss and garter removal songs. What have you done or will do for … Read more

06/27/17 1:37AM
Having 2 Maids of Honor - Promised one that I…
knottie90dc5f8897d4e235
06/25/17 4:07PM

So I'm on the fence about how many maids of honor I should have.  I absolutely definitely want my best friend to be my/one of my MoH. W… Read more

06/25/17 4:07PM
If you don't want an open relationship, you d…
mrsconn23
06/22/17 2:48PM

Dear Prudence, I met a new guy online, and on the second date he told me he is bisexual. I am OK with it overall, but he wants to have a guy… Read more

06/22/17 2:48PM
Reception Extras?
Brittbritt717
06/22/17 4:36PM

What were your reception extras? Thinking back to weddings that I've been to and searching Pinterest - I've only really seen/noticed custom … Read more

06/22/17 4:36PM
Is it too late for my engagement party?
knottie1b36a215ee014a2c
06/23/17 10:37PM

Hey, so we got engaged middle of May this year. The wedding is October 20, 2018. I am now trying to plan the engagement party. I found a pla… Read more

06/23/17 10:37PM
Send your regrets and silently judge this per…
mrsconn23
06/22/17 2:47PM

Dear Prudence, I received a wedding-related invitation from a family member, and I’m not sure how to respond. The couple lives a few state… Read more

06/22/17 2:47PM
Venue Closed so RE Doing everything
knottieafc578b999766e15
06/26/17 7:14PM

Here we go-stressing bride: Venue-CANCELLED Out and was sold so we are looking for a place to have an out door wedding in September of this … Read more

06/26/17 7:14PM
Tent Air Conditioning
knottie4e39b5696aa7d544
06/22/17 1:02AM

Hey there! My fiancee and are getting married in my mom's backyard in the summer. Which means we have to rent a tent. She's nagging me that … Read more

06/22/17 1:02AM
Please scilence your cell phones
bookmaiden17_
06/27/17 8:10PM

So I have read a couple posts on here about this topic but couldn't quite find a clear answer to my question. My mom is being instant on wan… Read more

06/27/17 8:10PM
We Did The Thing
Kwiksilver
06/25/17 10:40PM

Well ladies, the self-catered, remote mountain wedding has come and gone.  Overall, I have to say it actually turned out significantly bet… Read more

06/25/17 10:40PM
Question for Complicated Family Situation
VarunaTT
06/23/17 2:35PM

So, when I say "mom and dad", I actually am referencing my bio maternal grandmother and grandfather, who raised me. Mom has bio daughter sh… Read more

06/23/17 2:35PM
Only you can decide if it's a deal-breaker.
mrsconn23
06/22/17 2:50PM

Dear Prudence, My housemate has a habit that is seriously cutting into my sleep. Whenever she uses the bathroom, she blows her nose—and it… Read more

06/22/17 2:50PM
Best man killed himself and we're at a loss.
whiterosehoneybee
06/25/17 5:50PM

My fiance's best friend and co-best man, "T", killed himself recently.  We're getting married October 28 of this year. He was also dating m… Read more

06/25/17 5:50PM
sarcasm
drid
06/25/17 1:58AM

im in a local wedding buy and sell on fb and recently made a comment re STDS and RSVP dates when it comes to e-vites..... I made a personal … Read more

06/25/17 1:58AM
Someone wants to throw me a shower, but they'…
Knottie6abe5809eb0d3cfc
06/26/17 9:13PM

I'm definitely on the proper etiquette bandwagon that shower guests = wedding guests. I've had a couple lovely women from a community group… Read more

06/26/17 9:13PM
Wearing a white floral print dress to a weddi…
Mircakes
06/22/17 9:21PM

Hi everyone, I just wanted to ask whether it is ok to wear this white floral print dress (pictured) to a wedding. I'm going to an outdoor s… Read more

06/22/17 9:21PM
Should I Wait For The Pro Pics?
Kwiksilver
06/27/17 5:59PM

I have started on Thank You cards, and I wanted to include a photo from the wedding for a few people that sent gifts but didn't attend (like… Read more

06/27/17 5:59PM
Summer 2018 beach/adventure honeymoon
megtownxx
06/27/17 1:07PM

hi guys, just looking for some location ideas that i might not have thought of yet. General plan is to spend about 10ish nights somewhere, f… Read more

06/27/17 1:07PM
Health Tips For Young Women?
HowIMetMyLover
06/27/17 8:35AM

Hello   So a bit of context: I am 20 years old and my fiance is 21. We both are living at home with our parents until we get married, and … Read more

06/27/17 8:35AM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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