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Tell him he's not respecting your boundaries.
mrsconn23
07/22/21 2:56PM

Dear Prudence,My fiancé and I have been together for ten years and are overall very happy. While I would say we’re pretty similar in many… Read more

07/22/21 2:56PM
Cutting guest list because of COVID but alrea…
lanzahelgeson
07/26/21 6:26PM

My husband and I are really struggling with our invitation list. Our wedding was postponed from October 2020 to October of this year because… Read more

07/26/21 6:26PM
LW, you're blaming the wrong person here and …
mrsconn23
07/22/21 3:00PM

Dear Prudence, Years ago, when I was 6, my father married a woman named Claire. He and my mom had joint custody of me and my siblings, mean… Read more

07/22/21 3:00PM
Yes, say something. That's how to be an ally.
mrsconn23
07/22/21 2:51PM

Dear Prudence, I am in a racially mixed marriage (my wife is of Asian and Afro-Hispanic extraction, and I’m whiter than mayonnaise), and … Read more

07/22/21 2:51PM
It's not your business unless they tell you.
mrsconn23
07/22/21 3:02PM

Dear Prudence, My husband and I are at crossroads about how to confront our sons about a discovery we made while visiting their shared flat… Read more

07/22/21 3:02PM
Stop going to your mother's and work out a sc…
mrsconn23
07/22/21 3:05PM

Dear Prudence, I have had to start working nights. Often 10-hour shifts. My wife and I have a six-year-old and a six-month- old. I need sle… Read more

07/22/21 3:05PM
Classic: Poor Laura.
mrsconn23
07/22/21 3:07PM

“Laura” and I have been best friends since we were 10. Four years ago her husband, “James,” needed my help on a work-related matter … Read more

07/22/21 3:07PM
The Future Drs? Or Mr and Mrs?
knottieed60d8291b0afb8d
07/24/21 12:33AM

Hi everyone! Newly engaged and looking for some advice. I am making a custom address stamp and need help with how my fiance and I should be … Read more

07/24/21 12:33AM
Bridesmaids Dress Stolen (XP)
knottiec6abde6043b50340
07/22/21 7:28PM

Hello! I'm posting because unfortunately my car was broken into last night and my bridesmaids dress was stolen, and the wedding is in two an… Read more

07/22/21 7:28PM
Wording for invitations when not sure about s…
mikeandjessica91821
07/23/21 2:37AM

Is it ok to send out invitations without exact shuttle times? We have 1 shuttle making 1 or 2 trips, depending on the number of people who … Read more

07/23/21 2:37AM
Wedding transportation help!
crawfordra
07/22/21 12:10AM

Does anyone have recommendations on transportation planning and who rides with who? Here is how the day is going to go- bridal party and gro… Read more

07/22/21 12:10AM
You may be introverted, but you still need to…
mrsconn23
07/22/21 2:58PM

Dear Prudence, The emerging post-pandemic world has me thinking about friendships. Most of the people I hung out with in the past few years… Read more

07/22/21 2:58PM
Delaying a Honeymoon?
juliefrom1991
07/21/21 9:34PM

My husband and I just got married. It was a fairly budgeted ordeal and we really don't have the money to go on a honeymoon. We're both tryin… Read more

07/21/21 9:34PM
wedding planners
knottiec458cfca0f46a5e0
07/27/21 1:18AM

Hey! I am just curious when you are reaching out to different wedding planners how many do you typically contact? I fill out a lot of forms… Read more

07/27/21 1:18AM
Venue, but not a venue
knottiee463db525b23eefe
07/24/21 1:05AM

My husband and I are doing a "vow renewal" at our 10 year mark. My plan is to do pictures, and then go to a dinner reception at a … Read more

07/24/21 1:05AM
Ice with no freezer
knottie477bb0f763865664
07/23/21 1:16AM

Our wedding venue is a renovated barn. We have to set up a makeshift bar, but the issue we're running into is ice for 120-130 people. Do we … Read more

07/23/21 1:16AM
Bridesmaids Dress Stolen (XP)
knottiec6abde6043b50340
07/22/21 7:29PM

Hello! I'm posting because unfortunately my car was broken into last night and my bridesmaids dress was stolen, and the wedding is in two an… Read more

07/22/21 7:29PM
Destination Wedding in Aruba??
Kelceylamphere
07/22/21 1:41AM

My fiance and I have been dreaming of doing a small destination wedding in Aruba for a while, but now that the planning has begun I'm insane… Read more

07/22/21 1:41AM
Wording for invitations when not sure about s…
mikeandjessica91821
07/23/21 2:26AM

Hi Everyone, We have 1 shuttle making 1 or 2 trips from hotel to venue, depending on how many people will shuttle.  On invitations, I was… Read more

07/23/21 2:26AM
Recommend long distance moving company?
knottie9619bf9f32bce5fd
07/25/21 12:19AM

Has anyone had a good experience with a long distance mover that they'd recommend? Moving from Kansas City to Southern California and haven'… Read more

07/25/21 12:19AM
Has anyone had trouble getting refunds for ca…
knottie023466ee81bad577
07/22/21 5:38AM

Has anyone else had trouble getting refunds for weddings canceled due to COVID? Our wedding was canceled and Greentree Country Club in NY re… Read more

07/22/21 5:38AM
Registry link requires password?
knottiea4b3ceafa1eb9880
07/20/21 3:45PM

Is anyone else having this issue? My registry link that I would give out say for the bridal shower to my guests says it requires a password … Read more

07/20/21 3:45PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/ 5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center)http://weddi… Read more

11/ 5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/ 5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 Ceremony &am… Read more

11/ 5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty fi… Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/ 8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is dire… Read more

12/ 8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn all abou… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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