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Plan for November 2021 or wait until summer 2…
knottie1bb24b33d33c130f
01/12/21 11:02PM

Hi all, I just got engaged during the holidays and started gearing up to plan a wedding for end of November 2021 (been together forever, I … Read more

01/12/21 11:02PM
A Partly Kid Friendly Wedding
tilldeathdousclark1016
01/10/21 5:19PM

Hey everyone, I could really use some advice! My fiancé and I originally wanted to have a NO kids wedding. However, my parents are helping… Read more

01/10/21 5:19PM
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molarbear
01/ 9/21 3:48PM

Thanks for all the info everyone, I have a lot to think about with my guest list and some new perspective. Read more

01/ 9/21 3:48PM
Microwedding... bad etiquette to have a brida…
knottie9b680fe2f2b78e54
01/13/21 3:57AM

Due to covid, we do not want to take any chances in having to reschedule our day so we are having a microwedding at my dad's house in Florid… Read more

01/13/21 3:57AM
Give me a T-H-E-R-A-P-Y
mrsconn23
01/14/21 4:33PM

Dear Prudence, My husband’s childhood was mostly spent at his grandparents’ home, where they raised him and made him into the great man… Read more

01/14/21 4:33PM
There's a compromise here. It involves using…
mrsconn23
01/14/21 4:31PM

Dear Prudence, My long-term boyfriend lost his job during the pandemic (like most people in his industry) and got a retail job to help make… Read more

01/14/21 4:31PM
How to address unmarried couples with childre…
tilldeathdousclark1016
01/14/21 10:15PM

I am doing virtual save the dates. I have multiple cousins and other family members who are not married, but are in committed relationships … Read more

01/14/21 10:15PM
Oh HELL no.
mrsconn23
01/14/21 4:36PM

Dear Prudence, My 47-year-old stepson has been unemployed for more than five years and has burned through most of his savings and 401(k). … Read more

01/14/21 4:36PM
Maid of Honor
knottiea0a0708e10c9e5ac
01/13/21 11:50PM

Would it be wrong to switch bridesmaid and a maid of honor? The maid of honor that I had picked out is going through a lot of stuff in her l… Read more

01/13/21 11:50PM
Are you protecting yourself or feel obligated…
mrsconn23
01/14/21 4:28PM

Dear Prudence, Eight years ago, I was in a secret relationship with my first love, a man who emotionally abused me for the entirety of our … Read more

01/14/21 4:28PM
I'm not sure you can help Madeline if she doe…
mrsconn23
01/14/21 4:29PM

Dear Prudence, I’ve been working from home since March. A lot of my co-workers have partners and roommates who are also working from home… Read more

01/14/21 4:29PM
Including older niece
knottiea5a8272e305bb9ab
01/12/21 9:39PM

I am very set on my wedding party, but my mother is being insistent that I include my 12 year old cousin (more like me niece). I don't want … Read more

01/12/21 9:39PM
Vegan bridesmaid
theresaanddale
01/11/21 3:53PM

I'm having a fairly low key wedding with catering from a local German place. Being German, there's a lot of sausage/meat and a couple of sid… Read more

01/11/21 3:53PM
Ring Conundrum
pereadodson
01/12/21 11:58PM

My Fiance proposed with a ring that his Dad (who is no longer with us) had made and proposed to his step-Mom with; she had asked him to use … Read more

01/12/21 11:58PM
Maiden or Married Name on Degree??
Syd_the_Educator
01/11/21 8:55PM

Hello!  I recently got married in February of 2020! I have not been able to legally change my last name due to COVID-19. I will be graduat… Read more

01/11/21 8:55PM
Have you explored your online or sliding scal…
mrsconn23
01/14/21 4:35PM

Dear Prudence, 2020 was a rough year, and it’s affected my mental health. The past couple of months have been the worst, including what I… Read more

01/14/21 4:35PM
Mom Wants to Help with Budget
huckabecomingutley
01/15/21 7:27PM

Hi everyone! My boyfriend and I aren't quite engaged yet - we're trying to figure out a general budget and timeline before then to avoid a s… Read more

01/15/21 7:27PM
Why you should consider a first dance.
knottie85c576d30c7b1fa4
01/15/21 2:20AM

For those of you bashing on a first Dance because it isn’t professional dancers you are missing the point of why people do a first dance i… Read more

01/15/21 2:20AM
Brother new GF wanting an invite to wedding
knottiefc231630cd313fc8
01/15/21 11:31PM

Hi everyone! I’m brand new to the site and loving all the amazing support and advice in this community :) id really appreciate some help … Read more

01/15/21 11:31PM
How do I send postponement/elopement/new date…
knottiea74c8542213d67b8
01/15/21 11:58PM

Hi! A little background first: our original date was August 28, 2021 and this week our venue let us know they are cancelling all events unti… Read more

01/15/21 11:58PM
Married during covid - suppose to have big we…
knottie1bf96651dc3113e4
01/12/21 4:32PM

Hello! I really need advice and/or ideas! Our wedding date was May 16th 2020. Due to covid we couldn't have our wedding. We still however go… Read more

01/12/21 4:32PM
Looking for a reliable caftan store
knottie39c1117890476af1
01/12/21 7:37AM

I will get married in September 2021. I recently became obsessed with the Moroccan style caftan dress. Those dresses are really gorgeous and… Read more

01/12/21 7:37AM
Help!
knottie45c682197c7fa345
01/14/21 5:44AM

I have 7 bridesmaids. But i also have two younger sisters ages 12 & 14. I don’t have them as bridesmaids, so how do i involve them wit… Read more

01/14/21 5:44AM
Standing $2000 Deposit at The Doyle in Las Ve…
NoThanks
01/13/21 9:39PM

Hi, hopefully me calling off my engagement a few months ago will benefit somebody here who is looking for an excellent wedding venue here in… Read more

01/13/21 9:39PM
Mystery Dress - does anyone recognize this?!
kierld2022
01/13/21 4:55PM

I screenshotted this dress that I love on my phone but completely neglected to include where I saw it / where it's from! Such a rookie. Now … Read more

01/13/21 4:55PM
Never mind!
ei34
01/13/21 4:01PM

Nothing to see  Read more

01/13/21 4:01PM
Resources to Help out Readers?
knottie37d9fbf54d13435b
01/13/21 1:50AM

So I'm having my responsorial psalm spoken and not sung, I choose "Let All Praise the Name of the Lord" (based on Psalm 148). Even… Read more

01/13/21 1:50AM
Looking for a venue
knottie36b5683394203c71
01/ 9/21 10:41PM

Hello all, I’m looking for a wedding venue for October 2021 around Overland Park, Lenexa, and Topeka for under $1,000 we prefer more of a … Read more

01/ 9/21 10:41PM
Do you know where I can get this headpiece?
knottie7094bd1b60349cbc
01/16/21 4:13AM

Hi all! Please help - I have been looking online everywhere for this headpiece (or something similar) that all the models wore on Pronovias … Read more

01/16/21 4:13AM
Maggie Sottero Wedding Dress For Sale
Knottie51196767
01/ 9/21 10:07PM

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01/ 9/21 10:07PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/ 5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center)http://weddi… Read more

11/ 5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/ 5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 Ceremony &am… Read more

11/ 5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty fi… Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/ 8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is dire… Read more

12/ 8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn all abou… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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