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Why you should consider a first dance.
knottie85c576d30c7b1fa4
01/15/21 2:20AM

For those of you bashing on a first Dance because it isn’t professional dancers you are missing the point of why people do a first dance i… Read more

01/15/21 2:20AM
Give me a T-H-E-R-A-P-Y
mrsconn23
01/14/21 4:33PM

Dear Prudence, My husband’s childhood was mostly spent at his grandparents’ home, where they raised him and made him into the great man… Read more

01/14/21 4:33PM
How to address unmarried couples with childre…
tilldeathdousclark1016
01/14/21 10:15PM

I am doing virtual save the dates. I have multiple cousins and other family members who are not married, but are in committed relationships … Read more

01/14/21 10:15PM
There's a compromise here. It involves using…
mrsconn23
01/14/21 4:31PM

Dear Prudence, My long-term boyfriend lost his job during the pandemic (like most people in his industry) and got a retail job to help make… Read more

01/14/21 4:31PM
Wedding Website RSVP Launch
tilldeathdousclark1016
01/17/21 9:57PM

Hello everyone! We just sent out virtual save the dates via paperlesspost. Since our guests will have to travel for our wedding, we have inc… Read more

01/17/21 9:57PM
Oh HELL no.
mrsconn23
01/14/21 4:36PM

Dear Prudence, My 47-year-old stepson has been unemployed for more than five years and has burned through most of his savings and 401(k). … Read more

01/14/21 4:36PM
Mom Wants to Help with Budget
huckabecomingutley
01/15/21 7:27PM

Hi everyone! My boyfriend and I aren't quite engaged yet - we're trying to figure out a general budget and timeline before then to avoid a s… Read more

01/15/21 7:27PM
Brother new GF wanting an invite to wedding
knottiefc231630cd313fc8
01/15/21 11:31PM

Hi everyone! I’m brand new to the site and loving all the amazing support and advice in this community :) id really appreciate some help … Read more

01/15/21 11:31PM
Prudie Day
short+sassy
01/21/21 3:05PM

I remembered that @mrsconn23 bestowed upon me the revered WW responsibility of posting Prudie today, lol!  I will do that shortly. I am so… Read more

01/21/21 3:05PM
Wedding Speeches - My father in law dislikes …
who_moi
01/19/21 5:39PM

Looking for some advice/input on wedding speeches. Long story short, my father in law does not care for me. I also don't care for him (this … Read more

01/19/21 5:39PM
I'm not sure you can help Madeline if she doe…
mrsconn23
01/14/21 4:29PM

Dear Prudence, I’ve been working from home since March. A lot of my co-workers have partners and roommates who are also working from home… Read more

01/14/21 4:29PM
No Bridal Suite
theresaanddale
01/17/21 2:34PM

We're getting married outdoors with a building nearby for the reception. I'm not sure what to do right before the wedding. The bridesmaids a… Read more

01/17/21 2:34PM
Are you protecting yourself or feel obligated…
mrsconn23
01/14/21 4:28PM

Dear Prudence, Eight years ago, I was in a secret relationship with my first love, a man who emotionally abused me for the entirety of our … Read more

01/14/21 4:28PM
thegreenanole
01/20/21 6:17PM

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01/20/21 6:17PM
No Is A Good Answer, When Not Comfortable
short+sassy
01/21/21 3:34PM

To celebrate a milestone, my girlfriend dressed up as a 100-year-old lady; apparently this is fairly common. However, she didn’t stop ther… Read more

01/21/21 3:34PM
How do I send postponement/elopement/new date…
knottiea74c8542213d67b8
01/15/21 11:58PM

Hi! A little background first: our original date was August 28, 2021 and this week our venue let us know they are cancelling all events unti… Read more

01/15/21 11:58PM
Playing my tiny violin for you
short+sassy
01/21/21 3:43PM

I’m in my mid-40s, and I want to retire. I can afford it easily. I’ve made loads of money, although nobody close to me knows it aside fr… Read more

01/21/21 3:43PM
Make a better effort to keep things civil and…
short+sassy
01/21/21 3:40PM

Two years ago, my wife of nine years surprised me with a demand for a divorce. She said she had been unhappy and wasn’t going to “waste… Read more

01/21/21 3:40PM
Your husband is wrong
short+sassy
01/21/21 3:51PM

My husband and I have raised our kids to be pretty precise about grammar, because both of us grew up in poverty, and our studies helped us b… Read more

01/21/21 3:51PM
Have you explored your online or sliding scal…
mrsconn23
01/14/21 4:35PM

Dear Prudence, 2020 was a rough year, and it’s affected my mental health. The past couple of months have been the worst, including what I… Read more

01/14/21 4:35PM
Start dating with a focus on an emotional con…
short+sassy
01/21/21 3:50PM

I am a woman in my late 20s who has never been in a serious relationship. I had some awkward high school boyfriends, and I hooked up with a … Read more

01/21/21 3:50PM
Because making fun of another culture IS rude…
short+sassy
01/21/21 3:36PM

My wife and her best friend are white. They always talk to each other in fake Indian accents for hours at a time. I think it’s weird and k… Read more

01/21/21 3:36PM
Do you know where I can get this headpiece?
knottie7094bd1b60349cbc
01/16/21 4:13AM

Hi all! Please help - I have been looking online everywhere for this headpiece (or something similar) that all the models wore on Pronovias … Read more

01/16/21 4:13AM
Classic Prudie -- I would, but that is entire…
short+sassy
01/21/21 3:53PM

A little after my wife and I reconciled from our separation, we discovered she was pregnant. Although we were having marital problems, we we… Read more

01/21/21 3:53PM
Custom Happy Meal Boxes
knottiec3ab55dfa4d10ff5
01/20/21 12:18PM

We provide the latest designs of happy meal boxes for food packing. Happy meal boxes are used to pack food in a safe manner in weddings and … Read more

01/20/21 12:18PM
OPEN SUMMER DATE @ THE ROCKLEIGH!!!
knottie196d5c2b706c775f
01/19/21 9:55PM

Hi!! My husband & I had to postpone our wedding twice from our original May 2020 date last year, and had the most perfect microwedding l… Read more

01/19/21 9:55PM
Steven Khalil Style Dresses
yeseniajoyas
01/19/21 6:34PM

Anybody know a dress similar to this one under $2k? Thank you! Read more

01/19/21 6:34PM
Every used Ling's Moment
knottie1d1291c9f89f096f
01/18/21 10:32PM

Hi!!! Has anyone ever bought wedding pre-made bouquets from Ling's Moments (bride or bridesmaids)? If so would it be possible to add more fl… Read more

01/18/21 10:32PM
Selling Monique Lhuillier Secret Garden weddi…
knottie5a2dbbcce24b405b
01/18/21 7:04PM

Hi! I am selling the most beautiful and unique Monique Lhuillier wedding gown Secret Garden from the Fall 2020 collection. Perfect condition… Read more

01/18/21 7:04PM
Bonus Slate Plus letter -- No, tell those peo…
short+sassy
01/21/21 4:01PM

Gift giving: I’ve always been a “It’s better to give than receive” type, but is it poor taste to stop exchanging with people who se… Read more

01/21/21 4:01PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/ 5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center)http://weddi… Read more

11/ 5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/ 5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 Ceremony &am… Read more

11/ 5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty fi… Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/ 8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is dire… Read more

12/ 8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn all abou… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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