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ahoywedding
10/17/16 9:02PM

Is anyone concerned about Zika affecting their DW? We are not having a DW, but my sister is planning one for (an affected area). It's defini… Read more

10/17/16 9:02PM
Printing Own Invites
bookmaiden17_
10/17/16 4:57PM

A friend of mine is designing our invitations. There are two types that I am looking at a 5x7 or a seal and send (doesn't have an envelope).… Read more

10/17/16 4:57PM
Venue Cancelled!
winterberry6
10/17/16 4:00PM

I am getting married February 4th, 2017 and just last week my venue called and cancelled my reception, stating they are closing temporarily … Read more

10/17/16 4:00PM
How would you respond?
Fuchsiavision
10/16/16 9:32PM

Knotties, I need your help on this as my husband has been most upset over the behaviour of his mother and brother and wants to confront them… Read more

10/16/16 9:32PM
Intimidated by Dress Shopping
FoxandCrow
10/9/16 11:59PM

Hi folks, So, I have some bridal appointments coming up on the 22nd of this month. I made one in the morning at one salon, and another at 3… Read more

10/9/16 11:59PM
DIY Polaroid Guestbook
pslovesus2016
10/11/16 3:10PM

Hi everyone. I am having a tiny wedding in Palm Springs and two after parties one in my hometown and one where my fiancee and I live.  We … Read more

10/11/16 3:10PM

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This is horrifying
mrsconn23
10/12/17 3:01PM

Dear Prudence, I am an older, sexually conservative woman who got herpes from a man I was dating. He’s a pillar of the community and did n… Read more

10/12/17 3:01PM
I am so confused by this letter.
mrsconn23
10/12/17 3:11PM

Dear Prudence,My family is not well-off and neither am I. My parents always try to help me where they can because they feel guilty that they… Read more

10/12/17 3:11PM
The BIG question, how to politely put Adults …
Knottie1474162374
10/12/17 9:47PM

To start off, I know it is unpopular for people to request Adult only affairs, however I have such a large family (50 plus 1st cousins all w… Read more

10/12/17 9:47PM
inviting that guy
knottied049ec2b010ac0d1
10/13/17 5:06PM

I am wondering what the etiquette on this is. My mothers eldest brother has two sons both married and have children of there own. This is an… Read more

10/13/17 5:06PM
Um, there was nothing else to do/say...?
mrsconn23
10/12/17 3:13PM

Dear Prudence, Last night my wife and I went to a small theater to watch The Mystery of Edwin Drood. In the row in front of us, a woman bec… Read more

10/12/17 3:13PM
Future MIL is a registry kind of woman...
knottieb16c0c20a8bcd494
10/13/17 4:37AM

Future MIL is a registry kind of woman.  I just KNOW she is going to ask why we don't have a registry specified on our wedding website.… Read more

10/13/17 4:37AM
This person has to have the most patient GF a…
mrsconn23
10/12/17 3:00PM

Dear Prudence, I have a girlfriend I love very much. I have moderate depression and anxiety, and she has supported me for the entirety of ou… Read more

10/12/17 3:00PM
Hump-Day!
kimmiinthemitten
10/18/17 12:47PM

Hopefully that means some BCBC for us all! Had to get to work super early to take a breakfast delivery (left the house at 7) and my last me… Read more

10/18/17 12:47PM
missJeanLouise
mrsconn23
10/12/17 2:23PM

A ) I started listening to "That's why we drink" after your suggestion in the other thread.  Love it! B ) Have you listened to Casefile's … Read more

10/12/17 2:23PM
Love my stylist...no braids??
augustgirl21
10/11/17 7:59PM

So my stylist has been doing my hair for over ten years and I love her!!! When she did my prom hair, I never imagined she'd been doing my w… Read more

10/11/17 7:59PM
Cost for a Bustle and To Have a Ribbon Belt S…
Knottie58db04277ec3fdbf
10/12/17 9:24PM

Hi! So I have my dress and luckily the only alterations I need done are to potentially have a bustle added and a satin ribbon rhinestone bel… Read more

10/12/17 9:24PM
Nantucket or Block Island for a Bachelorette …
knottie81eb03c5dae1e77e
10/16/17 7:18PM

Hi!  I don't know which location to choose, Nantucket v. Block Island, for a Bachelorette Party!  There will be about 15-20 girls and w… Read more

10/16/17 7:18PM
Make contact when you can and don't take resp…
mrsconn23
10/12/17 3:15PM

Dear Prudence, I am a professional woman in my mid-30s. My parents live about five hours away, and I visit them for a few days at a time eve… Read more

10/12/17 3:15PM
Non traditional wedding march music
knottie847ae3b515a85a13
10/12/17 4:24PM

Hi all!  My my fiancé and I are marrying June 3rd at a gorgeous B&B/ horse farm. I am a country girl through and through and we are d… Read more

10/12/17 4:24PM
Venue Needed - SOS
bride110417
10/12/17 6:04PM

Hi All- I am getting married on November 4th, 23 days from now, and we have learned that our venue was destroyed in the Santa Rosa fires. W… Read more

10/12/17 6:04PM
Start by stopping the monthly phone call.
mrsconn23
10/12/17 3:05PM

Dear Prudence, I got married six months ago. My relationship with my family is at best distant—we don’t have a lot in common and there w… Read more

10/12/17 3:05PM
Interview Feedback
ahoywedding
10/12/17 8:34PM

Today I interviewed six people for one role on my team. When I notified the applicants that didn't get the position, a couple of them asked … Read more

10/12/17 8:34PM
I am looking to rent or buy my wedding dress
knottie6864dc82c4654946
10/14/17 1:05AM

I am looking to rent or buy my wedding dress. Anyone have experience with evdressau.com ? I have looked up multiple reviews by googling arou… Read more

10/14/17 1:05AM
Experience with Steve & Company DJs?
Knottie1463266900
10/13/17 3:51AM

My fiance and I are looking for a DJ/MC for our wedding reception in April, and we are considering Steve & Company (preferably Mark Nuzz… Read more

10/13/17 3:51AM
neon museum photoshoot
knottie055d7091ebf8b048
10/14/17 8:50PM

Hi, I am dreaming of a wedding photoshoot in the neon museum. My future husband isnt a fan of having his picture taken, so it would be a min… Read more

10/14/17 8:50PM
Help with a venue!
knottie35343623b63a8425
10/17/17 2:24PM

I’ve been working really hard to find an awesome (and not expensive) venue around Missoula. We would even be willing to not do it around M… Read more

10/17/17 2:24PM
Pamperin Park - Green Bay, WI: Stress Level?
kenkyla2018
10/16/17 9:19PM

We're considering having our wedding (outdoor ceremony & indoor reception) at Pamperin Park in GB. I want an outdoor ceremony and a rust… Read more

10/16/17 9:19PM
Affordable "Day Of" Coordinator
Knottie1468459548
10/16/17 4:30PM

Hi, I am looking for a reasonably priced coordinator for just the Day Of. I've done everything but am looking for someone to be there on the… Read more

10/16/17 4:30PM
What happens if you take too long to mail in …
knottie551895dae414b072
10/16/17 5:13AM

Hi all. I got married last week at my parents' house. My mom officiated. (She got ordained online and yes, did file her info with the county… Read more

10/16/17 5:13AM
harbor Lights
futuremrsraj
10/15/17 1:49PM

 hey  I'm wondering if there are any brides who are getting married or any brides who previously got married at harbor lights and what you… Read more

10/15/17 1:49PM
How do you add welcome party to RSVP manager?
Knottied4a096bc17010b9c
10/12/17 4:13PM

Hello - we're having a welcome party for all guests the Frida night before our wedding. How do you add this to the RSVP system?  Read more

10/12/17 4:13PM
Moved: Venue Needed - SOS
southernbelle0915
10/12/17 7:34PM

This discussion has been moved. Read more

10/12/17 7:34PM
Experience with Steve & Company DJs?
Knottie1463266900
10/13/17 3:49AM

My fiance and I are looking for a DJ/MC for our wedding reception in April, and we are considering Steve & Company (preferably Mark Nuzz… Read more

10/13/17 3:49AM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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