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Tuesday
VarunaTT
02/18/25 3:11PM

Man, it is cold here and I know it's colder a lot of places.  I'm always so thankful to be in warm shelter, with all things I need at times… Read more

02/18/25 3:11PM
Requiring “password” to enter reception v…
knottie38aa9dbf455d19b9
02/17/25 5:42PM

We’re holding our wedding reception at a speak easy bar on a day they are closed to the public. The owner suggested we provide our guests … Read more

02/17/25 5:42PM
This has to be fake
Casadena
02/14/25 3:22PM

Dear Prudence, My husband and I have a 3-year-old who is clearly more advanced than our neighbors’ son who is the same age. They want our… Read more

02/14/25 3:22PM
Monday
VarunaTT
02/17/25 5:25PM

Welp, I'm here working.  It's okay, fingers crossed BFF can get here this weekend.  He said his mom is doing better, so we're looking good… Read more

02/17/25 5:25PM
Wedding Planning App
knottie658986a1150a704a
02/17/25 7:15PM

I just came across this amazing app called LetsMarry, and I had to share it with you all. It’s a completely free wedding planning app avai… Read more

02/17/25 7:15PM
This sucks, but you can't make him
Casadena
02/14/25 3:19PM

Dear Prudence,  For my whole life, my dad has refused to wear a seatbelt. His excuse when I was a kid was, “We didn’t grow up with sea… Read more

02/14/25 3:19PM
Hard to help him if he wont' help himself
Casadena
02/14/25 3:28PM

Dear Prudence, What does a person do when the personality of their spouse changes significantly? I’ve been with my husband for 12 years. … Read more

02/14/25 3:28PM
Destination Wedding Questions
knottiea40c422e027042f8
02/15/25 7:57PM

Hello Destination Bride Community! I'm a grad student at SCAD working on a school project related to destination weddings. I have a couple q… Read more

02/15/25 7:57PM
Daphne can skip a trip
Casadena
02/14/25 3:18PM

Dear Prudence, My girlfriend, “Daphne,” and I moved in together six months ago. We’ve been together a little over two years. Daphne h… Read more

02/14/25 3:18PM
Stop engaging on the subject
Casadena
02/14/25 3:20PM

Dear Prudence, How do you get peace around family and politics? I live in Europe and I know Americans are familiar with this problem. I’m… Read more

02/14/25 3:20PM
You get to leave if you want
Casadena
02/14/25 3:32PM

For various reasons, travel, work. My husband and I only lived together a couple of months before our marriage two years ago. Huge mistake. … Read more

02/14/25 3:32PM
wedding app
knottie658986a1150a704a
02/14/25 10:31PM

I just came across this amazing app called LetsMarry, and I had to share it with you all. It’s a completely free wedding planning app avai… Read more

02/14/25 10:31PM
No Friyay, Fri-boo
VarunaTT
02/14/25 2:09PM

For me anyway.  I cancelled my trip.  Tuesday is calling for really bad weather both here and where I was going.  I could've worked from … Read more

02/14/25 2:09PM
Bachelor party dilemma
knottie0f1c99de9cff6c38
02/13/25 11:48AM

I have an issue with my bachelor party that is stressing me out. I want to go to Foxwoods casino and resort in Connecticut this summer. I pi… Read more

02/13/25 11:48AM
LEave
Casadena
02/14/25 3:29PM

Dear Prudence, I’ve been with my husband since we were 16; we’re now 30. Three years ago, he had an affair—he told me he was in love … Read more

02/14/25 3:29PM
You've done what you can, i'm sorry this happ…
Casadena
02/14/25 3:20PM

Dear Prudence,  I’m 66 years old and I have nine siblings—five sisters and four brothers. My oldest sister’s husband has been acting… Read more

02/14/25 3:20PM
Invite her but adjust your expecations?
Casadena
02/14/25 3:17PM

Dear Prudence, I grew up in a tumultuous household with volatile parents. Both had substance abuse problems, and my mother suffered from se… Read more

02/14/25 3:17PM
Grab lunch with coworker instead?
Casadena
02/14/25 3:16PM

Dear Prudence, I have an old work friend who invites me to his house a few times a year, along with many other old friends and colleagues. … Read more

02/14/25 3:16PM
Sounds like she needed the reality check?
Casadena
02/14/25 3:15PM

Dear Prudence, My teenage daughter has become addicted to “smellmaxing.” a fashionable trend of drenching oneself in vast quantities of… Read more

02/14/25 3:15PM
talk to her?
Casadena
02/14/25 3:23PM

Dear Prudence, I’m struggling with my relationship with my sister. We’ve never lived in the same city, but I recently moved closer to h… Read more

02/14/25 3:23PM
I'd stop answering the phone
Casadena
02/14/25 3:18PM

How do I deal with my verbally and emotionally abusive father? I am 46 and am still finding him interjecting his views on my life in forms o… Read more

02/14/25 3:18PM
It's her job, don't let her speak to you disr…
Casadena
02/14/25 3:31PM

Dear Prudence, I have a work meeting coming up that I am absolutely dreading. I’ve worked with a contractor for the past six years to dev… Read more

02/14/25 3:31PM
Can you block her messages?
Casadena
02/14/25 3:25PM

Dear Prudence, I’m a college student. I was born without legs, and I’ve lived my entire life without them. My grandmother recently ente… Read more

02/14/25 3:25PM
Let them be mad, not your info to share
Casadena
02/14/25 3:16PM

Dear Prudence, I am lucky enough that I have a fairly large close-friend group that has known each other since University. Somewhere along … Read more

02/14/25 3:16PM
Your H can hang out with them elsewhere
Casadena
02/14/25 3:27PM

Dear Prudence, My husband and I have been together for 20 years. Throughout that time, I have known his best friend, who I consider to be a… Read more

02/14/25 3:27PM
Ultimatums have a place
Casadena
02/14/25 3:21PM

My wife has probably the worst case of imposter syndrome that I have ever seen or experienced, mainly in relation to her job, but it permeat… Read more

02/14/25 3:21PM
Prudie Day
ei34
02/13/25 2:25PM

Happy almost Friday.  How's everyone today?   Read more

02/13/25 2:25PM
Nothing here.
VarunaTT
02/13/25 3:28PM
02/13/25 3:28PM
Should I invite to my wedding my aunts and un…
knottie262cc7f5b5d169e9
02/11/25 10:14PM

She hasn’t always hated them. Their relationship has dramatically diminished over the last 10 years. Her siblings are difficult people and… Read more

02/11/25 10:14PM
Winter Wednesday
VarunaTT
02/12/25 2:20PM

Good morning, WW!  How's the weather for everyone? School here was closed.  We have a couple of inches on the ground.  When I last looke… Read more

02/12/25 2:20PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center)http://weddi… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 Ceremony &am… Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty fi… Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is dire… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn all abou… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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