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ei34
10/21/24 1:37PM

Totally dragging today.  How was everyone's weekend?  @Casadena wishing you guys a magical week! Read more

10/21/24 1:37PM
Ignore her. She isn't worth the breath to in…
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:55PM

Dear Prudence, My best friend recently had a baby and I have been heavily involved with helping her. I am doing the cooking, cleaning, and … Read more

10/17/24 6:55PM
Your H is the one who needs boundaries.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:59PM

Dear Prudence,  My sister-in-law is miserable and confrontational. I’ve been on the receiving end of her bullying several times. Initial… Read more

10/17/24 6:59PM
You are helping her.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 8:41PM

Dear Prudence, My niece has always been a high achiever, while her older brothers are your stereotypical slackers. They both barely graduat… Read more

10/17/24 8:41PM
Stop this right now or she'll push you away.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 4:53PM

Dear Prudence, My daughter “Serena,” who’s now 30, is in what could be a beautiful relationship with a man who adores her, yet all … Read more

10/17/24 4:53PM
She's miserable, but you didn't have to brag …
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:29PM

Dear Prudence, My sister is miserable, and it is all her own making. After she got married, she got obsessed with all these cottage core in… Read more

10/17/24 6:29PM
He was wrong, but you took it too far.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 5:10PM

Dear Prudence, Our father retired after working 50 years, so my three siblings and I decided to take him and his wife to a very expensive r… Read more

10/17/24 5:10PM
Not responding is a response.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:23PM

Dear Prudence, I raised “Anne” from the time she was 3 until she was 16. Her mother couldn’t be bothered to do more than call on her… Read more

10/17/24 6:23PM
Only you can decide if you want to see him ag…
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:26PM

Dear Prudence, I recently matched with a man on a dating app and met up with him for drinks and then dinner. We work in the same industry, … Read more

10/17/24 6:26PM
Fri-yay
ei34
10/18/24 1:35PM

Finally!  Anyone have any nice weekend plans? Read more

10/18/24 1:35PM
You are a miserable person, LW.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 8:39PM

Dear Prudence, There is a well-endowed young lady in the neighborhood who dresses like a stripper when she goes jogging. There are plenty o… Read more

10/17/24 8:39PM
If it's working, great. Ignore the 'yelp' re…
mrsconn23
10/17/24 5:17PM

Dear Prudence,  A couple years ago, I started doing therapy via a phone app (I won’t name it but I’m sure you can narrow it down) to d… Read more

10/17/24 5:17PM
I'd never let her see or speak to him alone a…
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:37PM

Dear Prudence, I lost my husband when I was six months pregnant. Whatever good will my in-laws had for me evaporated when I decided to move… Read more

10/17/24 6:37PM
I feel LW's vibes, I'm not as intense, but I …
mrsconn23
10/17/24 7:01PM

Dear Prudence, We love to entertain. I know I am weird, but I don’t want help in the kitchen, before or after the meal. My wife and I are… Read more

10/17/24 7:01PM
This is truly not about you, but you should r…
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:24PM

Dear Prudence, I’ve never had a great relationship with my mother-in-law but I thought it was cordial. My in-laws live across the country… Read more

10/17/24 6:24PM
Stop entertaining her complaints.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:32PM

Dear Prudence, I raised my two girls in a small, cramped house. Both are adults, but my youngest still lives with me. I finally had enough … Read more

10/17/24 6:32PM
Let the chips fall.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:34PM

Dear Prudence, One of my friends, “Anna,” has a substance abuse problem. We’ve had words about it in the past, but she brushed me off… Read more

10/17/24 6:34PM
Please find a therapist...yesterday.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 5:13PM

Dear Prudence,  For years, I’ve been the emotional caregiver in my relationships. Darren, my ex, was the prime example. I practically mo… Read more

10/17/24 5:13PM
The friend you have vs. the one you want.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:30PM

Dear Prudence, 20 years ago, I had a neighborhood friend. Susan was 10 years younger than me, but her daughter was right in between my two.… Read more

10/17/24 6:30PM
Moving them in will implode your marriage.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 5:03PM

Dear Prudence, My husband is the oldest of five and feels he needs to “take care” of his siblings since their dad died when they were y… Read more

10/17/24 5:03PM
Break-up, seriously.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 5:11PM

Dear Prudence,  I live in a murder house. Obviously it wasn’t what I dreamed of for my future home, but it was a good price for what I g… Read more

10/17/24 5:11PM
Stop telling SIL ANYTHING about this situatio…
mrsconn23
10/17/24 5:05PM

Dear Prudence, My sister-in-law, a nice way to put it, is an activist. If there is a cause she believes in, she is all in and close to 100 … Read more

10/17/24 5:05PM
I'm so right that I'm never wrong.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 7:00PM

Dear Prudence, I am a highly intelligent person. I don’t say that with false confidence, I know I’m smart, I ace every test that’s gi… Read more

10/17/24 7:00PM
Keep ignoring them and/or distance yourself.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 5:08PM

Dear Prudence, I travel a lot for work. My best friend homeschools her two middle school age daughters; the younger one is my official god … Read more

10/17/24 5:08PM
Can I wear a in my bride era shirt anywhere
knottiea416db29ec3939c5
10/18/24 12:54PM

Hi I just bought a in my bride era shirt on Amazon and it came in already .and me and my fiance Joey are getting married on February 14th 20… Read more

10/18/24 12:54PM
This letter's tone has me all sorts of 'ew'.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:42PM

Dear Prudence, Ever since my wife (37F) and I (40M) got married, she’s struggled to keep up with her chores around the house. Back then, … Read more

10/17/24 6:42PM
Prudie Day
ei34
10/17/24 1:23PM

How's everyone?  Happy almost end of the week! Read more

10/17/24 1:23PM
knottie0d2c0b6b3a5beebd
10/17/24 9:16PM

Hi! Looking for suggestions.. the wedding will be at a clubhouse type setting. The outside is not ideal for wedding photos.. there’s no p… Read more

10/17/24 9:16PM
"With my surgery coming up, I *need* you…
mrsconn23
10/17/24 6:51PM

Dear Prudence,  My wife and I have a 5-year-old and a 4-year-old. We have been fighting about trying to get the kids to sleep in their own… Read more

10/17/24 6:51PM
Thank your friend for the review and do you.
mrsconn23
10/17/24 7:03PM

Dear Prudence,  I’m an aspiring writer, and I’ve almost completed a good draft of what would be my first novel. A major plot line invo… Read more

10/17/24 7:03PM

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KnotRiley
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11/ 5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/ 5/14 4:02PM

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11/ 5/14 4:02PM
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12/30/14 2:28PM

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12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/ 8/14 4:23PM

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12/ 8/14 4:23PM
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KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

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