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Fri-yay
ei34
09/22/23 12:44PM

We made it!  I'm relieved that the week is about over, I had some busy evenings between my kids' meet the teacher night on Tuesday and my o… Read more

09/22/23 12:44PM
The ring doesn't hold any power.
mrsconn23
09/21/23 5:21PM

Dear Prudence, I am 95 percent certain I know the answer to this dilemma, I just can’t dislodge the illogical 5 percent that insists I am… Read more

09/21/23 5:21PM
Kid's safety > his feelings
mrsconn23
09/21/23 5:37PM

Dear Prudence, I live in a big city, have two kids—aged 5 and 2—and need your help to address a family issue. My father lives with my s… Read more

09/21/23 5:37PM
I can't see any value in reaching out.
mrsconn23
09/21/23 5:35PM

Dear Prudence, I (she/her) just moved to the same city as my ex, and I’m debating reaching out. We dated for four months. Things were goi… Read more

09/21/23 5:35PM
Free Wedding Videographer (London Only)
knottiefaf42a7d45e2f34b
09/22/23 10:35AM

Hi All, I am genuinely offering free wedding videography. I've been videography for years now and have only done one wedding for … Read more

09/22/23 10:35AM
A letter from the 'other' side of these situa…
mrsconn23
09/21/23 5:38PM

Dear Prudence, My daughter has spent most of her 20s trying to find her feet—between careers and relationships. My sons both knew what th… Read more

09/21/23 5:38PM
You know you should leave.
mrsconn23
09/21/23 5:26PM

Dear Prudence, My husband and I are in our mid-30s. He has 9-year-old twins that I have had in my life since they were babies. His ex is a … Read more

09/21/23 5:26PM
This sounds miserable, LW.
mrsconn23
09/21/23 5:23PM

Dear Prudence, I’ve always been very disciplined about my grades in school, to the point where I’ve had full-on mental breaks over a 3.… Read more

09/21/23 5:23PM
Stop catering to Erin.
mrsconn23
09/21/23 5:29PM

Dear Prudence, I like to host gatherings at my house a few times a year—think, BBQs in the spring/summer and informal dinners in the cold… Read more

09/21/23 5:29PM
This is something to work on in therapy.
mrsconn23
09/21/23 5:32PM

Dear Prudence, After struggling with depression and episodic suicidal thoughts for many years, I finally reached a breaking point, and my t… Read more

09/21/23 5:32PM
Is the friendship worth giving the gift, or n…
mrsconn23
09/21/23 5:33PM

Dear Prudence,  “Julia” and I have been friends and neighbors for over 30 years. We have celebrated each other highs and lows—I just… Read more

09/21/23 5:33PM
He's just not that into you.
mrsconn23
09/21/23 5:30PM

Dear Prudence, A few months ago I was promoted at my company and moved to a new office. I was introduced to many people at one time, but on… Read more

09/21/23 5:30PM
This is a toxic stew.
mrsconn23
09/21/23 5:48PM

Dear Prudence, I work a full-time and part-time job while going to school. I pay rent and live with my uncle, his girlfriend “Ava,” and… Read more

09/21/23 5:48PM
Even though he's nice, it doesn't mean he's '…
mrsconn23
09/21/23 5:46PM

Dear Prudence, I’m a woman in my late-20s, and I’ve been in only two serious relationships in my life. They tended toward “intense”… Read more

09/21/23 5:46PM
Being bored is normal, but it's something onl…
mrsconn23
09/21/23 5:40PM

Dear Prudence, I’m 30 years old and have been married to my sweet, loving partner for seven years. We recently moved into our first house… Read more

09/21/23 5:40PM
It's time to reach out to Beth and just ask w…
mrsconn23
09/21/23 5:44PM

Dear Prudence, I met my best friend “Beth” 12 years ago during our freshman year of college—we spent our early-20s partying, drinkin… Read more

09/21/23 5:44PM
Prudie Day
ei34
09/21/23 1:08PM

This morning I was messaging on Instagram with the guy I used to sleep with when I was between boyfriends from my late teens-mid 20s (basica… Read more

09/21/23 1:08PM
Hump Day
ei34
09/20/23 12:59PM

Another nice cool morning here.  Very ssdd for me- hoping everyone has a good day! Read more

09/20/23 12:59PM
How to Change Time Format
knottied4c243f4aea9bc18
09/20/23 10:59PM

Hello! On our website it shows 12-hour time format, but for some reason when our guests open up the website from their phones it changes it … Read more

09/20/23 10:59PM
What does a cat tattoo mean?
knottie94e816587fbce516
09/21/23 4:21AM

I have a cat her name is Miche and I'm in deep love with her. I want a make a tattoo of her on my body but sometimes I get worried about the… Read more

09/21/23 4:21AM
semicolon butterfly tattoo meaning
knottie94e816587fbce516
09/21/23 3:55AM

A semicolon butterfly tattoo combines the semicolon symbol, representing resilience in mental health struggles, with a butterfly symbolizing… Read more

09/21/23 3:55AM
Bachelorette Tank Tops
knottiee6dca8ea3645999a
09/20/23 5:16PM

Hey everyone, I wanted to share a fun idea that some brides-to-be and their friends have been enjoying lately. You know how weddings can be … Read more

09/20/23 5:16PM
Tuesday
Casadena
09/19/23 3:02PM

I like my hair today but i'm still crampy - so overall neutral. It's raining and cool again and I love it - not excited at all for 80 degree… Read more

09/19/23 3:02PM
Merchandise for Wedding Anniversary
knottiee6dca8ea3645999a
09/19/23 2:57PM

I'm absolutely thrilled to share my recent experience with Adorb.com's wedding anniversary shirts because they genuinely exceeded all my exp… Read more

09/19/23 2:57PM
Hi!
knottied2c377bf79b603e8
09/19/23 2:34PM

Hello everyone! Newbie here! Read more

09/19/23 2:34PM
Monday
CharmedPam
09/18/23 5:06PM

No Monday post yet?We had some drab weather this weekend.  But the rain held off enough for us to have a little bit of a bonfire Saturday n… Read more

09/18/23 5:06PM
Wedding Arrangement Help
knottieff209a31db1fcf89
09/18/23 9:15PM

Hey Team, Big news—I'm tying the knot in the Big Apple! 🍎💍 As many of you know, I'm not just the owner of DGME I'm also about to b… Read more

09/18/23 9:15PM
Cute tumblers for each other
knottiee6dca8ea3645999a
09/18/23 4:51PM

Just wanted to share our delightful experience with Adorb.com and their customized couple tumblers! We decided to surprise each other with t… Read more

09/18/23 4:51PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/ 5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center)http://weddi… Read more

11/ 5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/ 5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 Ceremony &am… Read more

11/ 5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty fi… Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/ 8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is dire… Read more

12/ 8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn all abou… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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