I need help....right now my guest list has 177 people on it (counting me and groom, wedding party, and people that are helping with wedding).....BUT my location only has space for 130 (again including wedding party)....I know I can't hope or plan on 47 people RSVP'ing "NO" so how can I cut back on my guest list??? Is it ok to state that there is an age requirement in order to avoid small children (under 12 for example)? Also my grandparents gave me a list of VIP's however, they also stated some will not come to the wedding (as they are 90), would it be acceptable to not invite them and just send them an announcement of our marriage after the fact??? Our guest list really is one of the last things on the to-do list so I could really use some help!!!!