to invite someone to the bachelorette party that is not invited to the wedding? Or to invite someone to a bachelorette party that the bride to be doesn't know? Two of my friends (bridesmaids) are doing this for my b-party. It's an overnight event, but they are coming up just for the evening (a dinner and club I think, or maybe just the club part). I get that they are not required to participate in anything, but it kind of sucks that they do not feel comfortable coming alone (they do each know about 3-4 other girls who will be there). Also, it seems as if all the girls are putting in for bottle service and these girls are not. If they aren't participating in the bottle service, they shouldn't be allowed to partake in the drinking is what I would say if I were the MOH or an outsider looking in. But does that mean they should be called out if they do? I hope things don't get dramatic because I shouldn't be the one to deal with it but I'm worried about arguments or girls coming to me and whining about stuff.