Jen, I wasn't referring to all of you. I am very tired of Vugargirl accusing me and calling me a homophobe. She brings this up in every thread she is on. It is not true, but nothing I post will change her mind. She enjoys baiting me, and I have no respect for her. The gay friends I have do not need to shout that they are gay to everyone who will listen to them, and I doubt if they would like her, either.
I don't know everything. This is why I only post things that are published in accepted texts. I am delighted that same sex marriage is now legal (I voted for it in my state), and etiquette will need to adjust to address married same sex couples. I'm not the person to write the new rules.
I usually agree with your personal posts, and I admire you a lot. Thank you.