Alright, so I need the opinion of fellow brides!!
My aunt (my mother's sister) has always been the "black sheep" of our family. She wasn't around much, and let's face it.. she is a "off", if you know what I mean.
Anyways, she has had an on again/off again kind of relationship with my mother and my other aunt since I was a little girl. I planned on inviting her to the wedding, regardless of family history.
Well, about a month ago, she got all upset with me because I hadn't told her about the hotel arrangements yet. (Our wedding is in November!!). I told her that none of the guests knew about the hotel arrangements yet, but they were posted on the wedding website. She took that to mean that I didn't want her invited, which led to a GIANT disagreement between us both. It was ridiculous. She told me she never wanted to speak to me again.
A couple weeks ago, I tried to reach her to settle this whole ordeal. I have not heard back from her.. She did receive a STD. Should I still send her an invitation and/or a shower invite? I want to be the bigger person in this situation, but I don't want her to cause more trouble and more stress! I want this to be a happy day!
Advice!?!